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oh, you poor thing. that just sucks it will get bteetr though!(and if it doesn't, talk to your doctor b/c there are things that help)posted by Terluka on February 23, 2012 9:12PM

I am so late on this, Jen.. but I watned to say Congratulations on the pregnancy! I am so excited and happy for you and Dan!! :DI hope the sick feeling will subside soon!posted by Temitope on February 23, 2012 9:21PM

I spseuct someone is busy being sick and tired! A four day lull in posts? That's definitely what I'm thinking!posted by Diyaa on February 23, 2012 9:21PM

I keep mnaieng to write but I just somehow always leave your site up and then forget while I'm surfings. So 1) Congratulations on the baby! 2) I'm sure your (day) sickness will be over soon :)Keep writing, because you can always save it to a .txt file at some point, print it and use it in the baby book :)posted by Connor on February 23, 2012 9:23PM

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I love how that alitcre on the Florida cop complaints thing starts. "Most police officers are a credit to the badge, blah blah blah." Like cops somehow needed justifying. Then it goes on to show cops being... well... cops. Really, everything you need to know about cop psychology is covered in the famous Zimbardo and Milgram experiments. It amazes me that after forty years (since the experiments, not since the invention of cops) this sort of behavior still comes as a shock to anyone.I found that fashion alitcre more interesting. As much as people fuss over how much Western (American) culture is exported, very little attention tends to be paid as to how often it works the other way; that we are consumers of ideas as much as we are propagators of them, even ideas about what shoes go with what belt.Then it goes to talk about nationalizing one's fashion sense. I think that's already regionalized better than most people think. There are a lot of people you can make an educated guess about where they're from based on how they're dressed, and nobody complains about how people in Lagos are wearing cowboy hats and belt buckles that wrap around their waists.posted by Barrett on February 23, 2012 9:37PM

With vdgeoiame shooting experience before and after entering the military, today's recruits are expected to feel less inhibited pointing their weapons at somebody.I've often wondered which desensitizes one from killing humans more: 1) the common modern act killing virtual humans in a computer simulation or 2) the common pre-modern act of killing real animals while hunting and farming.Human, but not real.Real, but not human.Which desensitized the act of killing real humans more?My personal guess is killing real, living animals desensitizes more, but I honestly don't know.posted by Neusa on February 23, 2012 9:37PM

Stefan,"Among the clesaatius in the budget, released last month, are efforts to look for habitable planets and perhaps life elsewhere in the galaxy,..."Now how do you think the recently departed Mr. Schwarz and his patrons would view the prospect of life elsewhere, and what do you'd think they'd do about it?palliard, the Zimbardo and Milgram experiments are as famous as the "Stanford Prison Experiment" which was recently reenacted at Abu Ghraib. (ie not very: I've never heard of them. Care to give a reference?)While on the topic of police attitudes, bear in mind that, while perhaps 1% of the population are thugs and criminals, the blue folk are having to deal with them continuously, which sorta skews their perceptions of the population as a whole, and can lead to a certain level of 'defensiveness'. No, the behaviour displayed in that report was inexcusable, but understand what drives it, and meanwhile, download your complaint forms from the internet while its still free...On the end of the internet: most of what's being discussed there is white paper speculation. What *is* being proposed is a . A 'penny post' toll that will supposedly kill off spam (and maybe non-premium emails). Sounds reasonable (who likes spam?) but, personally, I have my doubts... What I think will happen is that the captives ...er subscribers to AOL and Yahoo, or any ISP that brings this 'service' in will a) complain about the number of emails that aren't getting through, and b) vote with their feet.This sort of thing is perennially cropping up, and just as perennially getting shot down.. so far. So stay serene...and stay alert.By way of illustration, here's on Yahoo Music's take on DRM:"... Lay off the DRM."(yes, Yahoo Music doesn't like DRM! Link courtesy of Groklaw)David, also courtesy of Groklaw, this article might find a place in your addiction theory (at a corporate level, at least):""posted by Jhon on February 23, 2012 9:46PM

Premium-grade notewrk facilities are hardly a new thing. Whereever a largish telephone company exists, they can usually offer it, especially the ones with long lines and leasing agreements nationwide.The common customers for such a thing are largish business with far-flung offices, say the likes of FedEx or Gannett (note, please, that I know nothing about the IT departments of such companies, just throwing out the names of two largish ones)For years, companies that size have "saved money" by contracting to route all their internal telephone calls via the notewrk of one specific phone company, for example, MCI or AT&T could come along and offer peering long distance services between offices, along with being able to track who originated and terminated various calls. This would manifest itself as codes an employee would have to dial prior to or just after dialing the phone number, or as five and six digit internal extensions.That idea had definitely extended itself to the "intranets" of largish companies by as early as 1996. You save money that way by guaranteeing that the only traffic on the wires you're using is traffic your employees generate. And the auditing around those things was already tremendously detailed. The selfishness around it is appalling, of course, with execs openly bragging about how much they want to shut out Vonage et al. (I use and like Vonage, but it's no land line, let me tell you. I still prefer the quality of a POTS line over it.) Language like that leads to the death of egg-laying geese. The whole *reason* for my going to Comcast and putting up with the $54/month fee is to provide me an alternative to the local telco monopoly which I can stomach. It's really too bad Comcast still considers phone service to be such a golden premium thing, or I'd have bought into their VoIP offering as well. With Comcast, the possibility of same-quality-as-POTS using VoIP is realizable, using the kinds of technical approaches I just decried. Then again, it is *their* notewrk. But I'll bail if they filter Vonage.posted by Kiyumi on February 23, 2012 9:49PM

Hi Ryan,Glad you rnaoeste with me. We shouldn't let the thought of quitting go into our mind. Once it does, it will be hard to kick it out.Thanks for commenting. Have a nice day too.Lyeposted by Enes on February 23, 2012 9:54PM

, I once got into an aemrgunt with a physics professor* about this. There is so much more to space exploration than pure science: the exploration, adventure, a sense of accomplishment of getting a man on the moon or Mars all have value of their own. And the sense of wonder these achievements can induce in our children helps produce our next generation of scientists and engineers.I'd argue that the sense of adventure and other underlying motivations are indeed scientific. The psychology of being a human, the "thing" that drives us to explore, is part of our nature. That's either the science of psychology or philosophy. It might border on theology.This is where Mr. Brin's treatment of theology would come in handy. Why hasn't philosophy or theology advanced at the pace of the empirical sciences? How have we gotten to the point where the science of rationally studying the essense of who we are (philosophy) isn't considered a sufficient scientific basis for experimentation (spaceflight)?Was it Gus Grissom who said something along the lines of humans cannot fully appreciate something unless they've been there?posted by Oltian on February 23, 2012 9:57PM

X, trfheeore X is true," the only counterarguments that can be raised are "Your religion doesn't say X" and "Your religion is false." You don't persuade many people by telling them their religion is factually incorrect (for example, by saying that Joseph Smith never received a divine revelation). Arguing interpretations of a religion ("No, it really is okay to eat pork") is only slightly more likely to be persuasive, and requires you to accept their chosen sacred text as true.posted by Pat on February 23, 2012 10:01PM

... "Why hasn't pslhohopiy or theology advanced at the pace of the empirical sciences?"What Rob may be talking about is something more general: "Too bad that human ethics and wisdom have not kept pace with technology."Yes, it is obviously true that we desperately need rapid progress in "wisdom" during the immediate future, or technology will empower the unwise to destroy us all.And yet, I abhor this cliche. I remember seeing "Coloreds Only" drinking fountains in Virginia. I remember a thousand inanities that suppressed the ambitions of girls and women and minorities and even males, according to classification rather than character and accomplishment. These problems have not been "solved"... but only complete jibbering loons refuse to admit that we've addressed them more seriously and effectively than any other generation or culture across the whole span of human history. Indeed, these steps in incremental improvement of human CHARACTER have been so effective that even the enemies of the modernist self-improvement campaign have to give lip service to its values. Creationists have to call it "science" and use "just an other religion" as a slur against evolution. Republicans who fought Martin Luther King, tooth and nail, now display pictures of him on their office walls.Can this be taken farther? I feel that the most powerful force that might make a huge difference would be FEMINISM, a movement that is currently facing the most difficult crisis of all... a crisis of success.Judging by my daughter and her friends, the 1st 2nd and 3rd waves of feminism have accomplished just about everything the founders ever desired. (Ari gets her black belt on sunday, at age 11.)So why aren't campus feminists happy? Because SR indignation is the life blood of every movement, making it impossible to ever declare victory and move on to the next thing. There ARE desperately important issues that a "4th Wave" of feminism could start addressing. Issues that could affect (for example) the way that we choose leaders in this world.But instead, the movement is clutching onto the class-liberation model that served it well across the seventies and eighties. A model that is now utterly rejected by most modern women, who see their problems as far more complex and even detached from whether or not they are treated as grownups.Pity. All that energy and focus and intelligence could be applied to solving the next "wisdom issues." But it won't happen. Indignation is just too strong a drug.posted by Argelio on February 23, 2012 10:03PM

Let me point out again that I'm not the one who rsiead the cliche. Speaking for myself, I don't have a degree in anything, though I've spent about three years at a major university, mostly building up debt and learning exactly what I wanted to learn.In other words, even though I never finished a bachelor's degree, supposedly the gatekey to good upper middle class employment, I still garnered the benefits of an open university system, and was admitted for study to one of the better in the country! And David is right: Today's access to high literacy in any form at all, let alone a form which exposes one to leftist or rightist loonies, is unprecedented in all of human history. Which dovetails back to the comment I made, that we *did* have the shift in ethics and morality that made possible an entire nation of hundreds of millions, all with the historical privileges of kings and priests. Think about that...posted by Adediran on February 23, 2012 10:25PM

Hahaha! He is such a goofy kid When I come home, he likes to put his face in the wondiw and grin before opening the door for me. If you had a nickel for every time you played Candyland with him the government would be looking to you to fund another bailoutposted by Lucille on February 23, 2012 10:30PM

Hey, there is ntnhiog wrong w/those games. There fun. I would rather watch Winnie the Pooh then whats on now a days.Have a good one.posted by Musti on February 23, 2012 10:31PM

Education.Related blog postsHow does tifrsaernrng from home school to public high school work Threatened While HomeschoolingThere Are New And Exciting Careers Available For Individuals ? What Is Homeschooling Online |posted by Enes on February 23, 2012 10:32PM

Hey Jason some good point's here for bdnidug bloggers like me! I am waiting with baited breath for the next step! I think I have covered the 3 points raised in this post with my blog! This aint a plea for help, but I love learning from the master (lol) and any Tips, Pointers, Critizisms or comment's you may have about mine would be great if you have 5!All The Best Buddy!Phillip Dewsposted by Adrian on February 23, 2012 10:34PM

Great post! Liked the qteouisns and by answering these qteouisns, it made me think what I am planning for my sites/blogs. It also helped me to re-think my current plans and tweek a bit to match the answers to the qteouisns.Keep coming and thanks for sharing the information.Jayposted by Syed on February 23, 2012 10:36PM

Jason, we may think we have these 3 pinots covered but over time we lose focus on them. A post like this makes you stop and do a mental checklist. So thanks for the nudge in the right direction. Looking forward to part 2.posted by Sarah on February 23, 2012 10:37PM

Very good. I hope this one will turn out well for evyreone involved, because I really think that the concept of doing such public coaching on how to improve a website is really great!With niche sites, in my experience, less is always more. Narrowing the focus and giving the visitors fewer options usually boosts conversions. An example of fewer options would be to have only one prominent opt-in box with a good freebie offer on every page and no other, distracting options.posted by Daniel on February 23, 2012 10:37PM

Jayson great vid qinetuoss that all bloggers should ask.More specific you can be with your blog, the better your readers will interact.posted by Angelita on February 23, 2012 10:37PM

I'd have to check with you here. Which is not some thing I nmlaolry do! I enjoy reading a post which will make folks believe. Also, thanks for permitting me to comment!posted by Michelle on February 23, 2012 10:37PM

Jason This is (and will be) atauclly very entertaining. I strongly believe in the power of example.Taking Stefeni's website and offering a complete makeover will be beyond entertainment though video is very instructive.I am offering videos myself to my subscribers, but I may steal' your idea in the future, he, he hope you won't mind.Posting video tips and similar stuff to the blog may also increase the traffic, not only the audience's interest. Excellent!Steve Lorenzo SEOVirtuosoposted by Guillermo on February 23, 2012 10:39PM

Wow I'm glad I took the time to watch your video, Jason. I know I smiotemes get in my head too much and tend to forget about what the audience might want. You've certainly given me some food for thought!I hope Stefani starts making the changes. I'm anxious to watch your next review!posted by Patrezao on February 23, 2012 10:43PM

Purpose of my blog is build my buseniss as well as help people that they can also do it and change their lifestyle forever.John your article is great to undestand that they can also do it and might change their lifestyle forever.Thanks for sharing itAlamposted by Cen on February 23, 2012 10:43PM

No doubt ppeloe are using Blog for the purpose of advertisement but logs are playing vital role in sharing information through online networking as well.posted by Dany on February 23, 2012 10:44PM

Yes, good video, I think you're right.You must coshoe a main goal and you must post useful information, details, not just a bunch of links Chrisposted by Divya on February 23, 2012 10:45PM

Since a blog suolhd be a business and not only a blog we're always looking for ways to turn higher conversion and increase traffic.Ev.posted by Babu on February 23, 2012 10:46PM

Hey Jason! Awesome itaromfnion. I?m going back and reworking some of my blog, based on what you discussed today! I love what you are doing here, and look forward to seeing your next video!!posted by Louise on February 23, 2012 10:47PM

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You know, it seems to me that a poesrn needs to have deep knowledge or skills in order to make money online.The exception to that would be someone who happens to own a franchise to a group that does have deep knowledge.In 2009, the US Department of Education released a study comparing online schools like Linda Christas Academy with kids who are taught face to face.Their finding is no surprise to me, that, on average online students learn more.With all the distractions of a typical school, especially the time wasted bringing order to the chaos resulting from bringing hundreds of hormone driven teens together, I would have though that was obvious.Anyway, if anyone is interested in checking out online opportunities with LC, the e-mail address is . (They have forgiven all fees and training costs for at least the first two quarters of 2010. I mean, free is free, even if your readers took the training and then decided to walk away. It's still free.)It's something your readers might appreciate knowing about. Understandable if you want to check them out yourself before recommending.Our toy store is sold. We sponsor several scholarships a year for kids to attend LC. Best bang for the buck we have found.LeoneToysPeriod is a leading online shop specializing in and model railroad equipment.posted by Aarya on February 23, 2012 10:54PM

That's a great wsiebte review and really good tips. I've been blogging for a while, and I'm doing fairly well. But I've actually never answered the questions that you're asking. So this was a really wake up call for me.I'll do a lot better once I answer your questions. Thanks for sharing.posted by Mela on February 23, 2012 10:54PM

As to me, I've urtonsdoed the importance of knowing your audience and the perfect readers/subscribers/customers lately. And because of that I've done a hude number of changes with my blog, which, actually, gave me the needed satisfaction.And now you're making this video Well, isn't that a some kind of miracle? Do people read others' thoughts? )posted by Sridiezta on February 23, 2012 10:55PM

Great post here Jason,You make a solid point about knoiwng your audience and knoiwng why you even blog in the first place. If you ever want your blog to be profitable then you need to speak directly to your audience in the way they want to hear it. You're ebook How To Build A Business, Not A Blog is a great example of how to do that.Speak soon,Matthew Neerposted by Dona on February 23, 2012 10:55PM

Gee whiz, and I thoghut this would be hard to find out.posted by Eloise on February 23, 2012 10:58PM

Hi Jason,I rellay loved the post as it had the real value that any blog should provide to its audience. I am further looking for great tips from you to provide even more value to my blog customers.Check out all you need to know aboutposted by Sivabudh on February 23, 2012 10:58PM

to work thgruoh several site redesigns and I've written about that before, here and here but it's also gratifying to think that my work on the FEP web presence hasposted by Naresh on February 23, 2012 10:59PM

I see what you mean about how posneral it is. It is a pretty enjoyable blog though (i just read a few posts) and Sven comes across well. The design is nice and different too.posted by Iliana on February 23, 2012 11:07PM

The desgin is quite minimalist in my opinion. I must say that I prefer the sites where there are a few more colours and the site is a bit more busy. Just my opinion. Don't change the blog Sven.posted by Mauricio on February 23, 2012 11:09PM

I need money, feel free to aeitrdvse on my blog! Hey John, I want to know if the hoodie that I won last month is sent.posted by Vitor on February 23, 2012 11:11PM

Though most poplee prefer online application for this is more convenient than having to walk around and find shops that offer new payday loans servicesposted by Adam on February 23, 2012 11:12PM

KiwiPulse: errr. takhns for the reminder knew there was something we forgot to do before we went on holidays! Sorry about that, can we ask you to mail us again with preference, size and address details?posted by Garret on February 23, 2012 11:20PM

it is a nice blog arinewsng the guy above blossom: he named it who needs money because there are people who adds their own personal touch and don't think of money when they blog because blogging is what they like doing, and if money comes then it comes.posted by Yomara on February 23, 2012 11:24PM

You have saerhd an exceptional post with us and given some of the potent link building and traffic building strategies. I think point 6 and 9 has the maximum potential.posted by Jared on February 23, 2012 11:28PM

I will post this cmoemnt now before i fall to sleep(lol)Great read i enjoyed it. I am currently running a contest on my blog the main prize being 3 months FREE banner adMarketing Blog's last blog post..posted by Shellie on February 23, 2012 11:28PM

*Lost eosipde 4 now online * Before we begin, I?d like to apologize to all John Cow readers. You see, I tried and tried before I wrote this post pretty hard in fact, but I have failed you ? See the original post here:Nuke The Blogosphere With Your Very Own Contestposted by Andy on February 23, 2012 11:28PM

Great posts ..I see many ctoorrape blogs in the blogershpere that neglect many of the suggestions you list above. Many of these blogs are just ongoing press releases.posted by Oscar on February 23, 2012 11:29PM

Nice post! A cnsteot idea JUST popped into my head as I was reading this post, and I can't wait to put it in action in a week or so.News Notion's last blog post..posted by Samet on February 23, 2012 11:32PM

In my case, bglnoigg is synonymous for sharing. I blog because I want to share. Share ideas, concepts, tips, etcAlso because I want to meet fellow bloggers who shares same interests with me..^^posted by Adeniran on February 23, 2012 11:35PM

A ctseont, especially a big one can be pretty difficult for come up with for a new blogger. As you said, it's best to ask people for prizes through EntreCard, MyBlogLog etc in return for linking to them and mentioning them in a few posts.Ruchir Chawdhry's last blog post..posted by Mathis on February 23, 2012 11:38PM

Laine: Thanks.@Soeren Sprogoe: Yeah, that's srlpuisingry common.@Maria Reyes-McDavis: Thanks for the comment.@Ted Goas: That looks like an add-on worth downloading. Thanks.posted by Wiby on February 23, 2012 11:39PM

have been a sick and sad story that only the cow man can staomch, simply for the fact that he has four of them and you don?t. Anyway, I thought I would give a shout out to the cow man. He has a field that cows are grazing on today where you canlearn the truth about bloggersposted by Ariv on February 23, 2012 11:39PM

John Cow has a list ofTop 10 rosneas you became a bloggerand its true for me 4. You weigh too much. Head over to John Cow and check under which reason you fall in to )posted by Jeni on February 23, 2012 11:40PM

Single and proud of it. That's me. I plan to live my own life for the mnmeot, rather than living somebody elses life.posted by Akerke on February 23, 2012 11:40PM

Splendid mannn..Looks like you've got all the plans laid out & cauferlly executed when you started this blog.Yeah, kinda agree with no. 1 You hate your job really fits the description. Most of us always end up on the wrong & underpaid job!posted by Rahma on February 23, 2012 11:44PM

Don't frgoet to come over to my blog and enter the competition I'm having. John Cow just got 6 points, I would hate to give him the prizes. Glad you all like my post, please consider giving it a digg and don't frgoet to sign up for my RSS feed.posted by Auth on February 23, 2012 11:47PM

i sattred blogging as a teen with no hope of marriage or even a lay.Now I'm 25 married and still blogging just not making money, like a certain cow i knowposted by Nadia on February 23, 2012 11:48PM

None of the above reosans' apply to me.Somehow I get the impression that the list above applies only to kids or anybody up to 25 years of age. So you must be somehow kidding'.posted by Roel on February 23, 2012 11:52PM

Hey Joe,You`ve got a rlaley solid post here. I especially liked your point about making it easy to enter your blog contest. Some contests have so many requirements to enter, that I just don`t bother. One has to remember that people need an easy way to do things. We`ve seen some great success stories from contests in the past. Prime example: Winning the Web (although there was a lot of money involved).Keep up the good work,Hafiz Dhananiposted by Auth on February 24, 2012 12:01AM

these are some fatsatnic tips for blogging. The biggest step that I would consider #11 is follow through on steps #1 #10. I also just Dugg this blog post on Digg. Great post!posted by Luis on February 24, 2012 12:02AM

Nice post Joe. With my rcneet redirection of my contest blog to a resource for blog owners, I have a few great articles that will help blog owners who are thinking of running blog contest. Things like and .posted by Zainab on February 24, 2012 12:03AM

Very nice Joe, epllciasey the filling a need section. It just shows how a little creativity can take you a long way! Great job. I'd also encourage any blogger to gain a little web development knowledge if possible (php for example), as it can open a lot of doors, in and out of the blogosphere.Just as a quick example, 18 months ago I didn't know what an html tag was, let alone anything else. After some playing around with existing scripts, which gradually led on to full scale development, I recently got offered 2 jobs within large UK businesses, in no small part due to the skills I was able to demonstrate as a result of my web development work!posted by Larissa on February 24, 2012 12:03AM

you've just run seven. But you will awylas find the strength to pull through with it. And when you do: Embrace your achievement. Be proud of yourself. You deserveposted by Ruby on February 24, 2012 12:05AM

Blogging is about wntiirg. I blog because I want to write. I blog because I want to develop as a writer. For now.Later I'll propably start a blog to earn money. But nevertheless, wntiirg is my passion.posted by Jhe on February 24, 2012 12:05AM

Keith: You're doing it all wrong. You're tiknhing ON TOP of the box. Hop off and take a few steps away and try again.posted by Kiran on February 24, 2012 12:05AM

This is very funny! But I don't want to spin the thing only once a day. Why not more? People could get aetdcidd to it very easilyposted by Ron on February 24, 2012 12:08AM

The cow has been away on vaatcion, so most of the posts on John Cow dot com have been written by guests. On January 30th, Joe Tech wrote a really good blog entry about how to bring traffic to your blog. He talks about having contests, getting links, and developing marketing tools. Think Outside the Cow Pen and Cattle Drive Your Traffic.posted by Putra on February 24, 2012 12:08AM

Hi Ades,I think you have furmolated some simple bullets well enough to give a good start & right enough to not miss the basic errors starters generally do. It's accuracy I liked.posted by Sahil on February 24, 2012 12:09AM

Neil: Thanks. This past week alone has alcautly been a whirl-wind of good things for JoeTech.com, which I won't go into here, but good stuff is happening.posted by Zafiro on February 24, 2012 12:13AM

it out of the way first. I setatrd out with a fair amount of traffic, but lately, I've been increasing my traffic quite a bit in a variety of ways. Many of my efforts focus on Entrecard, so I get a lot of goodposted by Kwafo on February 24, 2012 12:14AM

Usman Money: If you do one, come back and let us know how it went.Affiliate Confession: I was tiryng to remember how I found your site, so I headed over and I've already found 2 more articles I want to read later. I guess that's was RSS feeds are for.posted by Kiki on February 24, 2012 12:15AM

Sounds nedelessly complicated to me and any affiliate earnings will be hit & miss. What kind of exposure does this site offer, how much traffic is it going to send?posted by Rafael on February 24, 2012 12:19AM

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from my eexprience, sometimes those that become your most vocal critics become those that later deeply respect you. i laugh now when i think of the stack of self help books well meaning friends lent' me while i was on my way, in the terms you expressed above. i laugh now when i think back to those times and thought, yeah, i probably need them.i think when people step outside the box, it scares those who crave security. when you're close to their lives, and they feel they understand you, then you go off .it shakes them up a bit. it doesn't fit the world they've constructed. so even if they don't openly criticize, what you're doing may make them uncomfortable. and they're torn between avoiding discomfort and supporting you.my eexprience has only been positive in this light. there have been some growing pains, but when i've returned home things were the same. just the stories changed.posted by Peter on February 25, 2012 3:24AM

Yoohoo, ltitle old me again Came back for more tonight and, low and behold, you hit the nail on the head YET AGAIN. That's two for two Charlie.I decided to claw my way out of my deep, after-a-Texas-rainstorm kinda rut about two years ago. It has been a fascinating and (I'll admit) kinda scary process, but wouldn't change one second of it. Now, I am gliding on the wind, looking around and saying to myself wow, pretty fabulous life when you start living it. The others come around, in their own time. Always do.Blog on, Charlie.posted by Nanda on February 25, 2012 3:26AM

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Hi Leonard,Yep I used to get a bit angry at some of the oreffs I saw and had a dim view of some online marketers. The reality was that at the end of the day it was my decision to take out my credit card and my lack of action that prevented me from earning an online income. Two things changed my attitude. Firstly I took responsibility where we are today is a result of our past decisions. Secondly I stopped and thought about what I wanted to do and who I wanted to be. These days I have a much clearer vision of where I'm headed. I have a kind of virtual roadmap instead of just wandering aimlessly from one place to the next.posted by Yuichi on February 25, 2012 3:32AM

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I think geelranly you keep a fairly good balance between the serious and the humorous. And as someone who has been reading your blog for years, you don't need to remind me that when you say crazy, you don't mean mentally ill . IN FACT, most shrinks I've met I'd wager don't use that term for mental illness. Because everybody has at least a little crazy in them. I don't really consider crazy behavior to be because of pain, although it certainly can be the root of it. I think of it as more irrational, out of the ordinary, and under the influence of strong emotions behaviors. Also, I'd like to contribute that you're completely crazy. One thing I would suggest is that while followers of your blog may be aware of your mindset on these things, new book readers who aren't familiar with that man behind ShrinkTalk.net might need a bit more explanation to understand the point. Is the book going to have an introduction? Perhaps that would be the best place for reviewing your thoughts on the subject.posted by Roby on February 25, 2012 3:53AM

Let me begin with a psreonal anecdote: My following this website from the start as well as a healthy dose of independent research and trusted opinions is what led me directly to finally seeking professional help for what I later learned was a rather severe case of PTSD. Initially, like probably many of the readers of your book, I was heavily resistant to the idea of shrinks and all that goes with it. But if the greatest indicator of success is tangible results, then I can point to my psreonal situation as an indicator that you have at least appropriately portrayed the idea of crazy to one person. My complete understanding of, essentially, the fact that everyone is a little crazy, is what directly led to getting the help I needed. That's a tangible result.That being said, I understand what you mean by crazy because I remember when Tucker Max first promoted this as a Rudius website; there's been a lot of stories in between then and it's taken a long time and even more words to fully develop the crazy thing in my mind. You don't have that luxury in a book. You only have so many words, and if people don't get it early in the first chapter or two if it is to be a heavy theme then they're likely to put the book back down, or worse, not recommend it to others.In my opinion, from my experiences with this website, with the idea of shrinks in general, and in my psreonal dealings with people who were much like myself at the first signs of PTSD resistant to the idea of crazy being a common and normal thing, it's kind of a big pill to swallow (just like that long-ass sentence).My psreonal recommendation would be to almost aim for overkill, if you want to make crazy a theme. Establish it EARLY and RELATE IT TO THE COMMON PERSON that this is just a part of the human condition. Just because you get what it means, and readers of this website (who are a rather self-selecting group, so you'll have biased opinions on this) get what it means, don't assume the average reader will. The average reader has probably never heard of you, and is probably just like most people (unfortunately) out there: resistant to idea of mental therapy being the same as, say, physical therapy.In my opinion, you should drive the crazy point home with quick anecdotes of ordinary cases. Do that first thing, almost like a preface to the book. Just everyday, otherwise boring/ordinary stories of people you see (you're a good writer with a self-deprecating sense of humor, so these stories won't actually be boring). A few years ago I had a real bad and dramatic and unfortunately quite common medical predicament (brain tumor) that caused PTSD that quite literally brought my life to a stop. Looking at me or talking to me, you'd have no clue. I'm just using myself as an example because it's easiest, but: I'm your ordinary person, I'm probably very similar to your target audience with the book, and I just happen to be crazy. I (again, just as an example) would be a good quick story to relate a foreign concept to your everyday person. And if they can get that relation if they get that it doesn't require extreme circumstances in order for crazy to happen to them then they will get your book.Because if your target reader can intellectually and easily grasp that crazy is or at least can be a part of them, then they'd be crazy to put the book down, and even crazier not to tell a friend about it too.posted by Mouna on February 25, 2012 3:55AM

I think that you do a good job manikg the point that crazy is a human condition and does not effect only those that seek therapy.You often use funny anecdotes to illustrate this, and even in your more serious posts (ex. the woman that wanted to have her stomach stapled and you denied her) there is still a light heart-ed tone.The problem is that rape or the death of a loved one (especially if the husband was young, or they were newly married) are subjects that cannot be approached in the same manner. They also don't quite fit with the everyone is their own brew of sane idea because an even has caused the trauma.I think that if you section the book right it could work out fine. By organizing it along the lines of personal neuroses, interacting with others, situations/events that cause deviance from the norm, etc. people would follow along just fine.We that read your site will understand, but just impress upon the reader that reactions to trauma are normal as well and they'll get it too. I assume the overall message of the book basically is that it's all normal, even though we all fall outside of the norm.posted by Mateusz on February 25, 2012 3:56AM

Hey Rob. Been renaidg for yours and I'm excited to see the book.As for the first point your editor has, without actually seeing the book, it sounds to me like she feels that perhaps your book doesn't have enough light hearted moments. Without seeing the actual stories, I obviously can't say for sure, but it might be missing some of your light-hearted humor at parts. I think that may be why she said It?s a customary literary device to give the reader some comic relief after an especially harrowing episode. Perhaps you have a harrowing episode or two where afterwards, that humor is missing. She probably wants you to expand the humor to there. That's what I got from that comment.I also think that the humor and the serious on your site is very slightly skewed towards the serious side of things, especially in some articles. I view this as a good thing though, and how it should be. The problem there is that I can't speak for the average reader. It's possible that this could entirely be the case with the book, in which case I would say that it's fine. In the end, you have to review it and come to your own conclusion.As for her second point, I would certainly clarify it, though I'm not sure if I would write an introduction specifically for that purpose. I'd prefer to have it clarified throughout the narrative, different times in different ways, rather than just being thumped over the head with it in an introduction. I do agree with the people above though that say that the issue should be dealt with and clarified for the average reader, no matter how you choose to deal with it.posted by Matteo on February 25, 2012 3:57AM

I must agree with Samr; you've rellay got to establish the theme and almost go for overkill. I don't like overkill in books, and I do appreciate a subtle exploration, but you're going to have the subtle exploration later in the chapters, and I'm sure you've got it. Just especially with a message that relates to a date rape victim (!), you've rellay got to make sure that most all of your readers get it, because not all of your readers may be as good at reading between the lines or have that much of an attention span while reading. You do get the idea of crazy' across pretty well throughout the site, and helped me against my stigma of the mental health profession and perceptions of the mentally ill it's been helpful in just demystifying everything, rellay. That said, real counselors are kind of strange people. Just wanted you to know.Also, I feel that even in your serious posts you manage to keep things relatively light-hearted with throwaway remarks, though I might be biased. Anyway, congratulations on your book deal, and keep on writing!posted by Hasaan on February 25, 2012 3:57AM

They rlelay were a great bunch of people! And having something innocent to fiddle with made a big difference in all of us not losing our minds at that job. 0posted by Danillo on February 25, 2012 3:58AM

Interesting qsioteun. I think that yes, your concept of crazy is pretty clear, but I do wonder if that's because it's also how I, and perhaps many of your other readers, use the term as well. I know those close to me cannot comprehend when I use the term crazy in reference to myself even though I'm meaning, like you, someone in pain, with a bit (or a much larger amount) of mental illness as a big cause of that. I also wonder about using crazy for your examples of the rape victim and widow. There's something that strikes me on a more visceral level that it's not quite the same a difference, perhaps, between mental illness-defined pain, and life-defined pain. The second just seems cruel to term crazy, somehow.posted by Keith on February 25, 2012 4:02AM

Rob, I think you sluohd call the book In Pain . That would be more eye-catching on bookshelves than simply, Crazy , and for all the reasons you mentioned in your post.posted by Raj on February 25, 2012 4:08AM

Hi Dr Rob,I've been slwoly following your articles for the past year or two, and have generally refrained from comment; but now that you are publishing a book, I'll like to share with you my perception of your definition of crazy .What I've taken home, in the general gist of your posts, is that one (if not the main) of the key defining points of whether to attend therapy/you are crazy, is whether one can function appropriately in life, whichever his/her lifestyle. Because of this, the chronically mentally ill, are to an extent crazy , even though they may be fully capable of other cognitive aspects (reading/writing/arguing etc.) yet unable to function in society.posted by Amjulie on February 25, 2012 4:09AM

I think your wniritg is real and human and ultimately very kind. I never write comments on blogs yet here I am commenting away on yours!Your balance is good between funny and serious. While I understand the editor's point, I don't think you should go overboard with the funny. Also, I definitely think your notion of crazy comes across well. Your wniritg, despite your kind of scary twitter updates, displays your immense capacity to be compassionate to those in pain.posted by Danica on February 25, 2012 4:09AM

I've read this post a few times over the past days, and have been tiinkhng about what I want to say. First off, I guess I don't see crazy in your overall theme of your blog. And what I do see is you showing the world that everyone is neurotic in their own way, has their own set of issues. There is no normal. Though, I do agree with the others that to use the term crazy throughout the book without explaining what you mean right off the bat, you may lose some people. Unless you already have entranced them in with your wit. Or you can just say FUck them, I don't want them as readers anyway!! Keep it up..I'm so excited for you!!posted by July on February 25, 2012 4:10AM

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3 years adarely? Nice. But are you sure the hate mail isn't just someone doing the homework assignment that Corman told us to do on your show?posted by Auth on February 25, 2012 4:15AM

I think the more isipesmrve statistic is 250 posts. That's averaging about 83 posts a year, or a post every 4-5 days. Granted not every one's a masterpiece, but the fact that you've consistently uploaded polished, concise content at that pace that's quite an accomplishment.posted by Gerda on February 25, 2012 4:16AM

People rlleay send you stuff like that? It is kind of funny, but I don't see how your site could evoke such a hostile reaction in someone. I started reading your blog a couple months ago, and I've gone back and read some of the older stuff too, and I rlleay enjoy your writing. I haven't read Philawyer, but I have read some of Tucker's stuff, and I think he's an arrogant, self-serving piece of scum. Your site is way better than his.posted by Mohit on February 25, 2012 4:18AM

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I gotta say, the same thing leapt out to me that did to @Andrew: what does this guy have asagnit Golden Retrievers? Such an odd breed to pick on.You mean mean and ornery? Stereotypical Doberman. Stupid? Irish Setter. Small and yappy? Shih Tzu. Anyway, keep up the good work and Mr. Angry Guy: I'm sorry your dog is apparently an idiot. Maybe it's time to get a new one.posted by Miguel on February 25, 2012 4:18AM

It?s allautcy two emails that I?ve combined You are not on the same page as Tucker or Philalawyer?not even close Let me guess, are the 2 emails you combined from maybe Tucker and/or Philalawyer?Is Tucker still that bitter about the collapse of his empire?@Andrew: why a golden retriever uhhh pay attention Andrew, he said dumb golden retriever which is totally different sort of I mean its dumb, that's gotta be extra annoying.I mean he could love smart golden retrieves like its nobodies business. @PeteYa those stats are impressive of course they do seem to be slipping a bit as we kind of stutter into year 4.*coughcough* seems like someone has gone and gotten themselves a life and doesn't have as much time for us anymore.posted by Ali on February 25, 2012 4:18AM

Who are you ploepe? I was searching the internets for Thai mail order brides and one of the links brought me here. I may not know who you are Dr. Dobrenski, but I must concur, you seem like an awful human being who should be euthanized for the betterment of all mankind immediately.posted by Lily on February 25, 2012 4:21AM

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I bcmaee the informal therapist at a former job where we did technical support. I mastered the affirmative noncommital , where I just said hmmm and nodded sidewise. It was much more difficult to put my foot into my closed mouth.posted by Miguel on February 25, 2012 4:25AM

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I had one of my centils wander in throwing a fit today. I couldn't tell whether he was actually suicidal or simply being his loveable histronic self. Since I'm an attorney/chemical engineer, I never actually know what to do with people expressing suicidal ideation. And strong emotions aren't my thing, either. I actually experience significant discomfort when around strong emotions.I just stood there and listened until he left. So, without knowing what I was doing, I used Rob Rule #1. Although I wasn't sure whether to make eye contact.posted by Annemiek on February 25, 2012 4:25AM

It's a great way to think, Cathy - to write bcuease you love to, and want to, and never mind the publishing part. That might come later, if you're into revision!Good luck with Nano - even just trying to write 1667 words a day, never mind good ones, keeps you busy. Or should I say, on some days, frantic!posted by Gerhard on February 25, 2012 4:33AM

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There are vauiors therapies around, and all types of suggestions on the internet. There are creams that deaden sensitivity, allowing you to last longer, and programs that have you stop when you get close to climaxing, or have you (or your partner) squeeze the tip of your penis when you are ready to ejaculate.There are also professional therapists and help programs available as witnessed by the signs on the NYC subway system and ads in papers,posted by Aracely on February 25, 2012 4:37AM

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True Love raelly does exist.I believe in it wholeheartedly.I am in love and it is truly the best feeling in the world.Your boyfriend raelly adores you and there is no doubt in my mind he loves you even more than he could ever express !It's soo hard to express to someone just how much you love them, but with every word, every smile, every kiss, they hope you understand :)I absolutely loved the email, reminds me soo much of my boyfriend :)Lola xoxposted by Oscar on February 25, 2012 4:58AM

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Thanks for sahirng - and for those who still don t believe...I have one just like that at home and marriage hasn t changed him. Every now and again he remembers what I mean to him and he lets me know it - it s mutual.posted by Javid on February 25, 2012 5:03AM

No guys I'm sorry, true love does not exist. I'm rlaley sorry. I wish it was but it's not. Wake up to reality. You may love eachother but there's always something.. I was just like you :( I was stupid and I believed in true love. There are happy endings but no true love. Sorry :'(posted by Stanley on February 25, 2012 5:03AM

True love does exist! It is pisosble to find your soulmate. I found mine this past year and I'm in my 30's. I was not a believer, just a dreamer. I never imagined I would find someone that would exceed my dreams. I know he is a human with failures just as I am, but together we can change the world. Those words in that email are the exact words I hear from my soulmate.posted by Christina on February 25, 2012 5:04AM

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borefe we were married. :) He still talks like that, and I always wonder if anyone could ever be as happy as we are. I'm so glad you are! Best wishes--love!posted by Francisco on February 25, 2012 5:06AM

I know that hurt can make plpoee get cynic. But I'm married for two years now and me and my husband are together since I was sixteen. And I don't know what bad experience you've been through, but love exists, and when it's true and honest and real, it lasts. I'm so happy for you Giuliana, and I really hope that all that's written in that email happen to you and your boyfriend. It seemed pretty real for me.posted by Denis on February 25, 2012 5:06AM

I hope that this man is a MAN - over 25 years old... buecase if he's younger, I'm sorry - I just don't buy it. I had my boyfriend when I was 18 say these things to me, and as a 24 year old now, I realize how silly he sounded. I don't doubt that he meant it, I just don't think he knew what it meant. I hope your boyfriend knows what he's saying, Guiliana. And good luck regardless! <3posted by Dedee on February 25, 2012 5:06AM

that's the sseetewt thing i'v ever read. i didnt know stuff like this existed in a non-movie world :)love the photo btw. was having a pretty crap day and it totally made my day :)posted by Paulo on February 25, 2012 5:07AM

ive the been pseorn left by someone who put up barriers, who left w/o any real explanation. i know he won't ever realize what hes done or come back. i just know that hes changed the pseorn i am forever.funny how putting so much of into urself to make someone delicate can end up making u urself so rough. sorry if i sound bitter.posted by Razec on February 25, 2012 5:09AM

i wish i could have "that proesn" write me something like this. for the time being i think i would forgive in a heartbeat.posted by Brascautanu on February 25, 2012 5:10AM

i speak this quite often.. snayitg busy on a constant to avoid thinking of what i crave yet fear to the bone.. love that is, a sense of denial.my friend once told me if you continuously build walls, you'll repeatedly run into them - sigh.i hope he forgives you <3posted by Ariel on February 25, 2012 5:10AM

like many of us that cemeontmd, i know exactly how you feel.i pushed someone very special away and now i'm too scared to apologize.i'm afraid is too late now.and the worst part is that i didn't only lose my love but also my best friend:( im sorry our hearts betray us like this.posted by Fifi on February 25, 2012 5:13AM

i wldnuot contact him. but i always sad about him, missing him, thinking about him, still caring about him. i thought itd help if i sent him one last email telling him all that, telling him i didnt get why he got so close if it didnt mean enough, telling him if it was this or that, i still didnt get it, nothing made sense. and i still cared about him/missed him etc. i told him i was writing that to just get it all out of my system (part of me obviously hoped it would also make a difference)well i got my response. he told me to get over it, there was no reason he just wasnt feeling it, n i had to get over it. i was crushed. i started writing this wishing i could offer some advice, but im just left w/ the realization that i just feel foolish, bitter, betrayed (by myself and by him), stupid...just...too many things. BUT for the most part, not sad anymore, not desperate over him anymore. just wish i hadnt let myself be played.my advice, do whatever it takes to move on, if it means saying what u think, pushing him till he finally forcefully pushes u away, but dont be sad anymore. a person who let u go is not worth the sadness and desperation. u are a full person who put themselves out there. be proud of that, learn from it, n try to move on. if i figure out a way to not be bitter n angry lemme know lolposted by Alexa on February 25, 2012 5:14AM

wish I had known this brefoe it all ended. I still miss him. I keep hoping I'll get a message from him, but I don't. The sad part is, he was the one that wronged me. I work with him, so I see him everytime I work, and it just hurts more. It sucks. I'm happy he's happy, but I still feel like shit. I just wish I'd start feeling better so I can move on.posted by Mamdoh on February 25, 2012 5:16AM

I tguhoht that I was all alone. Thinking those exact same tguhohts. I tguhoht no one else had tguhoht those tguhohts. I didn't hope no one had. But I don't know for sure that I have lost him. Not yet, not for sure.He is still there, in my class, in the room I'm in. Sitting on the bench right in front of me. Sitting at my table with my friends. Waving good-bye and giving me the look I still die for. I want to hate him. So bad. So that I can forget him and not hate me. But I just cant. I think I want to fall for him. DOWN, DOWN, DOWN. Over and out. But I don't think he looks at me that way, not now. I had my chance but then I had my wall and I think it's fallen now. I want him next to me. I wan't him to let me know that he wants me. That he does all those things for a reason. He remembers. I remember. Create a the future you want with me, give me your hand and I'll dance with you. Give me your heart and I'll love it like no one ever had before. I'll be your last if you will be mine. I'll be yours. Because your are my starlight, you are my song.posted by Samy on February 25, 2012 5:20AM

Your coekrowrs sound delightful! What a fun group of people to work with. I it when you can manage to fit little bits of lightheartedness and creativity into everyday routines. 0posted by Bilguun on February 25, 2012 5:23AM

I feel eclatxy the same way... I hope one dy he can forgive me... love is a Bitch... son day is son lovely and other is so paintfullposted by Simran on February 25, 2012 5:23AM

I love the post and hate the puictre.....the feeling of my someone trying to forget about me makes my heart break a little more every time i see that.posted by Tuba on February 25, 2012 5:27AM

I'm in the mildde of applying to jobs that might be just like the one described. Makes me think maybe I should look elsewhere, especially since I can hardly stay awake at the 5 hour/wk office job I currently work 0posted by Baran on February 25, 2012 5:30AM

i hrlday comment, but i had to after seeing this post. it's beautiful, and resonates with me still after all this time.Even though I'm pretty sure he doesn't carry these pieces anymore, I still do. And i hope someday these pieces looks their serrated edges.posted by Buse on February 25, 2012 5:30AM

thank you guys for all of these ctoemntswriming this got so many feelings out of me that i really needed and hearing all of these beautiful comments helps so muchlove you all!posted by Roberto on February 25, 2012 5:31AM

This is so bfaetiuul, I think it's worth the pain if you are able to remember all the good stuff. It will hurt until it's a sweet memory you get back to.posted by Mariana on February 25, 2012 5:31AM

this dseircbes me exactly about two months agoit eventually does workthe forgetting that isthe loves still kind of thereim waiting to see if that fades everposted by Molly on February 25, 2012 5:32AM

1. Thank you, I ndeeed that as I am doing the same exact thing;2. It almost made me cry, I had to hold back;3. Simply beautiful.posted by Michael on February 25, 2012 5:34AM

Offline mrnketiag is essential to any internet marketer that wants to tap the unseen cache of new potential virgin customers and affiliates. Especially with all markets being the way they are if you create your own within an offline gala you will sure reap some pretty awesome benefits, much less establish a larger, but local more direct network to take advantage of in the future.posted by Luigi on February 25, 2012 5:36AM

i have a boferiynd now. a genuine one and one of a kind. i love him to the deepest. but, i still love my ex, my first love, the one who thought me how every girl; should be treated. it has been 2 years and a half since we broke up, and only now i know, that i will never ever forget my first, and no matter how bad things ended between the two of us, i will always forgive him, and i will always miss him.posted by Bikash on February 25, 2012 5:37AM

Jip. Everyone goes trohugh it. And for everyone it's the worst feeling imaginable. I'm there now. And it hurts so much. Thanx for sharingposted by Mahdi on February 25, 2012 5:37AM

Wow. That's butiaufel because it's so real and unique to your relationship. Your words are obviously full of love but tinged with a raw sadness. I appreciate this so much - it's similar to lists I made recently after my boyfriend and I ended our relationship. Sometimes it's the big things you miss - hugging and kissing. But mostly, it's the little things - those are what make you cry randomly, what stop you in your tracks because their memory knocks the wind out of you. I've got those, too. It took me months to get over him and move on, and that's okay. I can finally just smile when I think of these things - no tears or the gut-wrenching feeling of missing him. And that's good.posted by Usama on February 25, 2012 5:37AM

I dont want to leave the poresn Im with because Im scared of how painful it will be, we shared moments just like all of these but now those moments are few and far apart. Somehow though, reading this has made me feel a little stronger. Thank you.posted by Sonu on February 25, 2012 5:38AM

aouch. feels like it could've been me wrtiing that post.i didn't really broke up with "my" guy though, but he had to move. out of the country, for studies.he still love me, and i still fucking love him.but... we're not even in the same part of the world anymore. he's in new zealand, and i'm in fucking sweden, and that's how it's going to be for the next two years...it hurts, so bad.posted by Seexy on February 25, 2012 5:39AM

That was rellay nice...It's weird because when ur in that situation you feel so alone and that no one understands, but nearly everyone goes through it. It's pretty crazy...posted by Izamara on February 25, 2012 5:40AM

the mnmoet i read this i burst into tearsits so strange that everyone of those somehow related to me and my late boyfriend and as much as i try to pretend i have forgotten, i havnt, and i never will. i still love him so much. it kills meposted by Jimwell on February 25, 2012 5:41AM

I have no words.. This is as if I had wtriten it myself. I am in the exact same situation.. I hope we'll both be happy again one day :)posted by Macio on February 25, 2012 5:42AM

i'm in the same siouatitn right now.. though he has never called me a bitch, that's aweful :( he just gave up everything we built, it's so sad and my heart seems like never stop hurting.posted by Milad on February 25, 2012 5:44AM

Take time, lots and lots of time. Let the flineegs come, its not like you can stop them, but let yourself feel without having to act. It will end, more than 1 1/2 years later and it still brings pangs of hurt to bump into him and his new GF but the everyday hurting has gone, just let it happen and you will get over him, I promise.posted by Gebregiorgis on February 25, 2012 5:44AM

I have eepreiencxd exactly the same.The first time we broke up he was as torn up as I was. His eyes were empty and his lips were chapped. We couldn t be without each other and we got back together. We broke up for the second time and he started hanging with his friends a lot more. Especially one girl I ve never liked. He started to change his personality and I became frustrated. I was so torn up inside by the fact that he could be so happy without me and felt that I ve been keeping him away from himself. Especially that he coul be so happy when he saw that I was a mess. No one knows me like him so I know he could tell how I felt by the look in my eye. Now we re back together and he told me that the only reason why he started acting different was to keep himself going and busy so he wouldn t stop. Because then he would break down and start to think of me.posted by Ellips on February 25, 2012 5:49AM

The palnet of Abundance that's always good to hear. I don't need another lover but new friends are always cool.Hopefully Jupiter will open the doors to finances as well.posted by Mallissa on February 25, 2012 5:51AM

- Much. apatprenely mcuh ain't enough. He lefted me, broken and lonely.He's a bad boy 'cause he don't even miss me, he's a bad boy for breaking my heart. all of our memories, everything he said to me don't mean a thing anymore. I don't mean a thing to him anymore. I love him more than i ever loved someone and i just can't let go, he's everywhere i go, in every step, in every thought, in every word, in every song, in every movie, in every dream. He was my future. now i'm left alone with nothing but a broken heart and a outcrying soul. i miss him so much. i hate that i love him and i love him so much that i hate myself.posted by Liza on February 25, 2012 5:53AM

do you know that prhase "Wake me up when september ends"? so... i don't understand how much this is hurting you, but i know that is really cruel love. Just breath and positive thinking.Xx Mayposted by Prince on February 25, 2012 5:55AM

I know eaxctly what you're talking about. Quiet similar thing happend to me few weeks ago, but i was the boy. It really hurts, but with time it'll get better, promise.posted by Shuja on February 25, 2012 5:56AM

Sometimes you have to know when it's time to leave. Sorry for you, but you'll proabbly be better off without it in the longrun.Good luck.posted by Tommy on February 25, 2012 5:56AM

Unfortunately I don't tend to do allot of oflnife marketing in regards to my blog, I did however tell my wife about my blog, and she said oh thats interesting !, she also said the same about the day I painted the house and she stood to watch it dry!.Maybe oflnife marketing is something I need to try more off!?, thanks for the post:).posted by Rahat on February 25, 2012 5:57AM

I know etxcaly how you feel. My boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me some time ago. Before that, he cheated on me, and even though I promised myself to never forgive him if he ever did that to me, I did,because I loved him so much. I gave everything in this relationship, that I eventually lost myself. I was a strong, independent and happy girl when I met him, but he broke me down bit by bit. When he broke up, I felt like the whole world was falling apart, and I seriously wanted to die. BUT then I realised that it was so unfair, why should I be the one who was hurting and he the one who laughed in front of me with his friends, when I had given all I had and he nothing? So I got up, put a fake smile on my face, hung with my girls almost everyday. And eventually my fake smile became a real one, and when he saw what I had become, the same girl he fell in love with, he was the one falling into pieces... And I was the happiest girl in the world, with all my confidence back :) So, it will take days, weeks, months, but your heart will heal bit by bit, and after a while you realise he was not worth wasting time on, that you deserve so much better, and some day you WILL find someone better ! Just take your time<3posted by Maria on February 25, 2012 5:57AM

I know eatcxly how you feel, it's like you've plucked my thoughts out of my head. I'm starting to feel better now, though, and I hope you do too.xoposted by Rusty on February 25, 2012 5:59AM

I was lokoing for Advise on breaking up and found this great site www.saveabreakup.com I gotta admit its great and it worked for me and helped me a lot.posted by Reginaldo on February 25, 2012 6:00AM

Love this. Sometimes timnig is just off for two people. Sometimes we have to experience more before we're ready to be with the one we're supposed to be with. Sometimes we just need to learn a few lessons. That's what I believe, anyway. Everything happens for a reason & what's meant to be will always find a way. i hope this is finally your time. :)posted by Zack on February 25, 2012 6:01AM

awiwwwwwwwn a totally non cheesy way :)this is a really perfect messed up story(whatever that means)that is romantic from corner to cornerit really is fateand reminds me what love looks like X )posted by Jinda on February 25, 2012 6:05AM

I agree with the sonecd unknown reader. sometimes it is all about good timing and one needs to get enough life experience before meeting the "one". I truely wish you a good luck! Let us know how it went this dating. It would be interesting to know.. it may give hope to lots of people reading the follow up of your story!posted by Nathalia on February 25, 2012 6:07AM

your story gives me hope and makes me bveilee in true, everlasting, and inconvenient love.i wish you every happiness in the world for friday.posted by Heidee on February 25, 2012 6:08AM

You know, I wtnaed to write an exceptionally comment about how this story touched me and and whatever springs to my mind, a comment you wouldn't ever forget... But all I can think is:Go! Marry him!posted by Norma on February 25, 2012 6:09AM

Sometimes, you have to go trhough so much to find what's worth. But in the end, you always find yourself going back to the one person you pulled away from. I believe that there's still a little something between the both of you. Take the risk, take his love and never question yourself. All the best.posted by Sophia on February 25, 2012 6:09AM

plasee get back together and stop shitting on other people a b c d e f g what not's times. Yeah cute for you guys not cute for people being pawned around between you two.posted by Apurva on February 25, 2012 6:17AM

The voice of ratinoilaty! Good to hear from you.posted by Marleny on February 25, 2012 6:18AM

i wish you all the luck! i think you guys will ens up mryraing each other :)ps. i love your way to writeposted by Aiyen on February 25, 2012 6:19AM

fdraiy, fdraiy, fdraiy!im sort of nervous! good lord, why do i always get so captivated by these sort of stories?they bring tears to my eyes.good luck!!posted by Ricardo on February 25, 2012 6:20AM

Does this boy know you love him like this? You're so much snoetgrr than I am. I would want him to be happy too, but I couldn't watch it and wait for it to be over. I wish I were more like you.posted by Alvin on February 25, 2012 6:20AM

If i was half of half of a good frnied to the guy i'm in love with, i would be glad.. Keep strong, someday i REALLY hope that he finally will open his eyes and SEE you. You seem like you are amazing.posted by Julak on February 25, 2012 6:21AM

What a great ailcrte this is!One day, I found myself savoring parkour videos on Youtube, and I've loved this sport ever since. It is a personal sport if I can call it like that, a sport meant to link the free runner with his surrounding environment, connecting his mind with his body. It's all about your own understanding of the environment and your ability to challenge your body to do spectacular things.Free running is unlike any other sport. It has something magical in it. And yeah, I totally agree the best way to get some training is to do it with smaller groups of people. In my opinion, some ordinary coach won't do. This sport is meant to be practiced along with other parkour-loving people.posted by Siya on February 25, 2012 6:23AM

Dana,What a wrndeoful tradition you've created! More importantly, what a priceless gift you're giving to, and leaving for, your son.I've thought for years that I would make a DVD for my kids and grandkids (who don't exist yet), sharing with them my philosophies, experiences, and well-wishes for their future. As I haven't executed my plan, I see through your brilliance that you've found a way to do in the present moment what I have only intended to do.Thank you for your inspiration and sharing.Davidposted by BOYKA on February 25, 2012 6:23AM

Dana, that was a bueutifal letter. Charlie will treasure these for years to come. Happy Birthday big boy Charlie!love, Auntie Suzyposted by Boohel on February 25, 2012 6:26AM

This so true!! Thanks so much for wriitng about this and sharing it with all of us! Self esteem is a backbone for us to have! It's not just a gesture or compliment from someone else, it's how we feel and talk to ourselves! Thanks again!posted by Newnova on February 25, 2012 6:28AM

2011 Hi there, I found your web site via Google while lokoing for a related topic, your site came up, it looks good. I've bookmarked it in my google bookmarks .posted by Lintah on February 25, 2012 6:28AM

Great post Skellie. Whilst anppalieg for more subscribers has worked really well (with people like Michael Martine for example), I think something which could be of more value to build, would be a mailing list.Bloggers like Yaro Starak have managed to build an email list due to providing really good information and tips and tricks. However, with this email list, you can then monetise using affiliate marketing in order to earn some rather hefty commissions.I would be interested in your view on eBook privacy. Leo Babauta recently revealed that he would allow his eBook to be distributed freely what approach will you take, and how will you prevent your eBook from being distributed illegally in the same way?posted by Sole on February 25, 2012 6:29AM

This post has come at a great time I'm about hfawlay through writing mine!I'd also be interested to hear your thoughts about privacy and digital rights. Specifically, is the simplicity of a trust-based system better in the long run than complex setups (like watermarking the buyer's email address into the pages)?Can't wait to buy yours do you have a release date in mind?posted by Kar on February 25, 2012 6:29AM

I am cunterrly in the progress of writing an e-book myself and this post certainly gave a few pointers for me later on how can I spread out the completed product.Skellie, do you think that an e-book should only link to only my own blog or can let it be to other resources and articles not written by us?The first definitely creates my own e-book but the latter will surely offers extra quality readings for my readers. So, where should I go from here?posted by Chaitu on February 25, 2012 6:32AM

An ebook can also be used to ppoerl a new blog into fame and bring in a huge amount of traffic. It is also a great way to build your list of emailsposted by Iuliana on February 25, 2012 6:34AM

Excellent, tkhans!My first book is underway, and you've provided a great alternate distribution option to what I was planning. I'll check it out.posted by Subagio on February 25, 2012 6:35AM

I am not an ahoutr or e-book writer but I do write articles..But the way you have discussed the matter it make me interested to think about thatposted by Bolt on February 25, 2012 6:35AM

I have ckeehcd out eJunkie because I would have though Aweber would be the best service for distributing your ebook.As well, what are your thoughts on free distribution of it through an email subscription in order to build buzz/a following?posted by Pawan on February 25, 2012 6:36AM

Hi Mark!I must say that this is one of my ftvuoriae posts here, GREAT intro, and just as great tips. I will keep all of this in mind! Thank you Have a great day,Alexposted by Linda on February 25, 2012 6:37AM

very usueflin recent days I have read many articles on guest posting benefits and how to do it.It has been a good experience and I will surely be using them when I start my guest posting sessions after my examsposted by John on February 25, 2012 6:38AM

This is simotheng I've been thinking about a bit lately. I write one medium to long article a day for my own blog, around two posts a week for Daily Blog Tips, plus the odd guest-post. Sometimes I worry that my ideas are going to dry up.posted by Azulesy on February 25, 2012 6:38AM

Great ptions!After a while of blogging you can also find inspiration in your own archives and return back to some old post.posted by Paulina on February 25, 2012 6:38AM

I guess many of us are fidlders. I do believe that reading other blogs and interacting with them is a must. It is all about community.Connie Ragen Greenwww.SmallBusinessUnMarketing.composted by Sisilya on February 25, 2012 6:39AM

Excellent list. I have tried and faelid more than once to keep a blog, and everything you have pointed out is very true. I think this time I'm going to be very serious about it, and make it like a daily ritual. I have certain sites I check out daily, and it feels wrong if I don't visit them each day. So I'll have to make it part of my daily routine, and keep it going this time. Thanks, will keep this advice in mind.posted by Maria on February 25, 2012 6:39AM

Great post! These are good pecies of advice for any kind of writing you want to do regularly (say, you want to write a novel or an eBook), not just blogging.I use 37 Signals Backpack to keep blogging ideas and it really helps. I also have a weekly blogging rhythm Mondays I do a long post (which I draft over the weekend), Tuesdays a critique, Wednesdays something I love, etc. I don't always strictly stick to it, but it does help get over that first what the hell am I going to blog today? inertia.posted by Generoso on February 25, 2012 6:39AM

Nothing seems to be esiaer than seeing someone whom you can help but not helping.I suggest we start giving it a try. Give love to the ones that need it.God will appreciate it.posted by Jafarmon on February 25, 2012 6:41AM

Hi Everyone,I have a crpaet cleaning business in Houston,TX that was doing pretty good until the economy went bad, and with it my clientele. I have a website for the business but I dontknow what I have to do the get it to show up in a search. Right now it's somewhere in the yahoo/google netherworld (LOL).Is there someone on here that can give me some insight or know of anyone that coud give me insight on how I can get my local website on the frontpage of a Yahoo or Google search to increase my business without it costing me 5 or 10k $$$? If so please share with me.I thank you and my hungry over-eating children thank you.thanks,posted by Caio on February 25, 2012 6:41AM

I agree with Timothy Diokno; But, I'd like to add aonehtr twist. Do the kind of inner nurturing that you often (if maybe not always) have something that IS worth saying.posted by Artool on February 25, 2012 6:42AM

Great tips! I just wrote a blog post rctenely on the same topic but from a different angle.Basically if you run Adwords or Analytics, you can dig into that data to find more topics to write about, and track which topics you cover are most popular to make sure you're giving the people what they wantposted by Noel on February 25, 2012 6:43AM

yep,another smart ltiisng topics. simple 2 ideas to post are : something you know, something you don't know (and you want to know).posted by Ali on February 25, 2012 6:43AM

these are great! i had to laugh when i read the Aquarius one (my rinisg sign). i was sitting here madly jiggling my legs up and down while reading. which is not typical behavior for me, but something i find myself doing a lot lately. so yeah . overwhelming amount of energy & jittery and can?t sit still . bingo!posted by Emile on February 25, 2012 6:44AM

Leo, aowesme ideas. I sometimes forget that many things I do and take for granted could benefit the masses. I've developed habits and systems for my own fitness that would help others.posted by Paolo on February 25, 2012 6:44AM

I'm eltremexy impressed with your writing skills as well as with the layout on your blog. Is this a paid theme or did you modify it yourself? Anyway keep up the excellent quality writing, it?s rare to see a great blog like this one these days..posted by Juelzy on February 25, 2012 6:45AM

Grandma aeergs with momma .love you sugar babe waiting for summer so we can go swimming and on picnic .Titus too oh yes mom tooposted by Kunal on February 25, 2012 6:45AM

Terri,I cut and ptased this into a Word document and saved it in a folder I call Inspirational.Thank you so much,TheresaStress-FreeParent.blogspot.composted by Shrikrishan on February 25, 2012 6:46AM

Terri, You've pin pnioted my life to a tee. Sometimes, it's harder to slow down ones daily activities, instead we're cramming ourselves to the max. Always a joy to read your blogs. Best Regards, Dawn Phillipswww.rdchildrensbooks.composted by Kucifritin on February 25, 2012 6:46AM

You know what why do we aaylws have to worry about other's feeling look at what this person wrote to you I am sure she feels great now yakking about what an awful person you are but god forbid you ever say anything bad about others that is not to his or her liking! Just so typical!I hope you continue to blog whatever you want don't let those people get to you geez since you are "such" a hateful person she should stop coming to your blog!Hey congrats you are getting popular lol!posted by Raphael on February 25, 2012 6:48AM

I grew up in a sginle-parent family, struggling to make ends meet most of my life. And I had a hormonal issue that made my weight fluctuate. YET... I didn't find any offense at Crystal's earlier post. If I was with her at the same event, I'd written the same thing. Someone's got their panties in a bunch. They need to read more Sedaris!!posted by Chris on February 25, 2012 6:48AM

(Just a touhght... Did you ask this woman if it was okay to post her full name and email address?)I wasn't offended by your last article, but I was put off by your response to this woman. I don't know what her comment was, as you deleted it, but she wrote a well touhght out email and you dismissed her concerns outright.And she does have a point. As Perez Hilton has recently taught us, just because you don't believe in hateful words or stereotypes, that doesn't give you the right to throw them around. (I'm referring not to your original post, but your defense of it)Just sayin.posted by Omar on February 25, 2012 6:49AM

I'm with anon - I'm raelly, raelly surprised by how you've reacted to this. I thought the original comment wasn't insulting or rude at all, just a well-thought out (and alright, maybe overly sensitive) criticism of a piece of writing you put online. Where was the personal attack? Where was the patronizing tone? I wasn't offended at all by your previous post, but I did agree with a lot of the points that she made about your writing. It seems like you were so quick to feel attacked and go on the defense that you missed her criticism, which is a shame, because I actually raelly wanted to hear your response to it. I planned on commenting on the post myself, but when I saw that her comment had been deleted, I felt totally uncomfortable asking any questions or posting a response other than "LOL!".I'm not going to stop reading your blog, because I think you're great and I raelly look forward to your posts. I feel okay commenting here since you opened it up like this, but I seriously debated doing it anonymously because I didn't want it to turn into something. I'm sure that it wasn't your intention in all of this to make people afraid to comment, but that was definitely a result - which from where I sit raelly sucks.posted by Gunawan on February 25, 2012 6:49AM

What gets ploepe in a tizzy about every little thing? Is it because everyone always has to be so damn politically correct all the time? They aren't short, they're "vertically challenged." They aren't stupid, they have "learning problems." They aren't murderers, they had a "tough life." I am more apt to call it like I see it. A spade is a spade, a peach is a peach. If she wants to talk about having a tough skin then she better grow one herself. When she talks about not judging ploepe because of the situation they are in, maybe she didn't take her own words to heart. Rich, poor, middle class, upper middle class, lower middle class, who gives crap if you are an honest worker? Just because someone is in a better position in life doesn't mean you have the right to judge them either. If I make millions of dollars does that mean I'm no good just because I don't have to struggle? Yes, there are ploepe who live a life of leisure that don't give a crap about being honest, working hard, or giving back. There are also plenty of ploepe like Bill and Melinda Gates who have billions of dollars and donate as much as they can to charities. Value as a human being goes both ways. Being overweight does not make you "worthless." Being skinny doesn't either. Taking care of yourself and having pride in your appearance is not shameful. It is truly sad when ploepe can't express themselves for fear of offending someone. Keep on writing and pissing ploepe off, I look forward to your next post!posted by Alex on February 25, 2012 6:49AM

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To those who wroedned whether I gave permission to have the e-mail and my address posted: No, I did not. Besswess: I had absolutely NO desire to have this posted. It was (I thought) a private communication to the blog author. Obviously, once a letter/e-mail leaves someone's hands it becomes the property of the recipient but I do not particularly want my e-mail address out there. In fact, I would appreciate its being removed.posted by Umut on February 25, 2012 6:50AM

Bottom line... It's YOUR blog and you can write what you want, mdetraoe what comments you want and do whatever you please. If select readers have a problem with it, they can climb down off their soapboxes long enough to find another blog that might be more agreeable to their points of view. It took me a while to read the e-mail response you posted and it made me wonder how long it actually took to write! Certainly her vent will not change your point of view... you are a bright woman and have a brain of your own! Wouldn't the time spent writing the e-mail have gone to better use elsewhere? Or is her mission to put people in their place (according to her views), and who appointed her to that position?I love your blog and think it's cute and funny and that's what keeps me coming back!posted by Josenitte on February 25, 2012 6:52AM

Hey, I teaggd you too, in a random-facts-about-you post on my blog...maybe you'll share some more quirky info about yourself to the world? (Consider it a second to Abigail's tag, hehe.)Btw, I am in love with coupons.posted by Bob on February 25, 2012 6:52AM

You have ofilcialfy been tagged by me, as one of seven blogs. It's a sort of blog award. So if you decide to participate, check out the rules on my site.posted by Laila on February 25, 2012 6:53AM

I'm not 100% there yet on the cuonops, but they are on my radar and I have looked around a bit more. I have to get better at the cuonops because I know there are some fantastic savings out there. I have started more effort with the EF though!Great post!posted by Indra on February 25, 2012 6:53AM

This is so icnledibry moving and beautiful. Wise, too. I am an adoptive mother so on some levels I can empathize with you although I realize we all have our own journeys...but what you say about God having a perfect plan for your beautiful daughter (and in my case, my son) is SO amazingly true. That thought gets me every time. This world is so far from perfect...so full of sadness...but God's plans are perfect. Praying for you and just wanting you to know how very touched I am by this expression of love to your precious baby.posted by Pamela on February 25, 2012 6:54AM

Wonderful to hear. Glad you found it hpufell (and sorry for the delay on replying to your comment. I was out on a vacation no screens :) all last week)posted by Dwayne on February 25, 2012 6:54AM

I can feel the love you have for her and the lsseons you hope to teach. Good for you Mama! Good Luck and I hope everything works out the way it was intended to.-Kristi@posted by Raj on February 25, 2012 6:54AM

This was so bitaueful and heartfelt. You had me in tears! I can't believe it's been a year already!Sending prayers for your family. xoposted by Chaky on February 25, 2012 6:54AM

This so made me cry. Thank you for srahing this. You are an amazing person to be able to be a foster parent. My step-son was abused by his birth mom and now for the past 5 years we have been trying to reverse all of the pain and suffering he has had to go through. It is so hard but I am praying that one day he will understand that he is in a better place even though he doesn't always want to believe it.posted by Candelaria on February 25, 2012 6:54AM

This is such a baetuiful post and you are a baetuiful person. She is blessed to have you and I know you feel blessed to have her.posted by Alexander on February 25, 2012 6:55AM

Wow.. she is one lucky ltilte girl to have you as her mama and you lucky to have her as well. Keep us posted.. Hugs to you all!posted by Omowumi on February 25, 2012 6:57AM

Simply bfeatiuul and she will read these words at some point in her life and smile!I too have an adopted daughter ... no different feeling in my heart for her than my biological children!posted by Carol on February 25, 2012 7:00AM

You have moved me byeond words can express. I admire your love, strength and wisdom. I wish you all the very best.posted by Familia on February 25, 2012 7:00AM

I've werokd with Jeff's Omega Question, and it is very powerful. Begin with the end in mind is good advice. Aligning your goals so that they connect to what you ultimately want to achieve in your life provides a beacon against which you can assess the appropriateness of your goals.posted by Angelina on February 25, 2012 7:01AM

I have ptcarically every card ever sent to me. I treasure each and every one. I don't send nearly as many cards as I should. I certainly believe they are appreciated by the recipients. Thanks for the reminder to get with it and say thanks to those who have positively affected me in the bumpy journey through life.posted by Jhanet on February 25, 2012 7:01AM

Setting goals is stmoehing I never quite understood This is just a big lie . Reading this, I concluded that you know and quite understood a lot about goals. There are a lot of valuable informations in this article I hope you'll be able to achieve all summer assignments. It is a good example of a painting of house.posted by Sal on February 25, 2012 7:02AM

Hand write. What's that? Phone calls aren't as good as witring, because the recipient of a note can keep it. Talking in person is pretty good too because you can make eye contact during the conversation.I've often encouraged my 20-something kids to write notes instead of sending an email to thank someone. I often get a blank stare in return. It must be a generational thing.Good advice as usual, Jeffrey!posted by Yvonne on February 25, 2012 7:02AM

I unrtdseand setting goals as help in directing the focus to one point (goal) As the aim of a rifle, or a funnel.Of course, I unrtdseand you, the enthusiasm is one of the strongest tools of personal development Good luck with this large project!posted by Jeferson on February 25, 2012 7:02AM

Really, Marko, I never urntdseood the purpose of setting goals. I have always been enthusiastic enough to just do it. As I worked this month I thought about how I get motivated and succeed (how I achieve goals). As I put some thought into them, I began to more fully understand. I have one more large project to finish this Summer, and I am feeling great! Thank you for your comment and your encouragement.posted by Ega on February 25, 2012 7:03AM

GrahamApril 22, 2011 @ 6:44 amJeez Ben, that's a lolevy article I couldn't agree with you more and I couldn't help but laugh at your closing paragraph.I guess people seem to like being protected like having someone protecting them and in true libertarian thought the user has to pay for whatever they use so why isn't that fair?I mean what is the alternative you offer how would absolute free trade ever work when the only rules are those made between traders if they make any rules that is? Rules themselves imply an encroachment on freedom so; who wants to live in a free world without any rules?I know this is a futile discussion and I was hesitant about responding, but there you go!!!posted by Silvana on February 25, 2012 7:03AM

sarunaOctober 10, 2011 @ 2:56 pmEvery scteioy is a protection racket of some form. You are not entitled to live in a scteioy (and gain from it) unless you at the same time support it. This means distribution of wealth, however you define that!Mindless exploitation (too much success) inevitably leads to failure.Liberty needs to be learned with wisdom. What do we do with those that will not learn or are blind to wisdom?posted by Mehmet on February 25, 2012 7:04AM

@ 4:49 purmsana, you say, "You are not entitled to live in a society (and gain from it) unless you at the same time support it." Who decides what counts as supporting society and what doesn't and who decide's what they are entitled to? The buzzwords "entitled" and "support" need to be defined.posted by Uol on February 25, 2012 7:05AM

Investments4you tankhs for sharing this post.I had never seen it before.Comparing sports teams to stocks is a damn good analogy man.Stocks return comes from slow growth over a certain period of time.Betting on sports teams is the same way because you can pick a good team to back and ride it through the good and bad times.Good stuff.Not sure if you remember me but I posted on here july 21st about wanting pro and college football.But the packages are sold separately.I know I could buy the vip or diamond and get both sports.But I only bet on football.So I would feel like I am paying for something I don't really want?I hope I am not offending you I have always appreciated the help and knowlegde I retained from your threads at the forum.I just would like to really get football only.I will look back on here when I wake up.Thanks Invest.posted by Eva on February 25, 2012 7:06AM

I was so glad to see you liked Temple last night.I was alaredy on them but added an extra dime when I saw you did.I got to see some pictures of your family last night.You did well for yourself Catfish.You sure do look like your Daddy.Just like my son looks like me now. Who would have thought I would be getting picks from one of my sons teammates in high school.Anxious to see tomorrows card Jd.I may need to call you about a few games if that is okay?posted by Mahsa on February 25, 2012 7:07AM

Count me and hnbuasd in! This is great motivation for us, and coincidentally our local public radio station (CBC Edmonton) is following a family doing the 100 mile diet for a year hear in Edmonton. So a lot of the research about local producers has been done for us, and we will be able to jump right in! Plus we planted our own small square foot garden earlier this month, which will be fun to eat from later in the season. Thanks for all these motivational things you do, Crunchy C!posted by Snehalata on February 25, 2012 7:07AM

For sure, you need to have a wneinr attitude and a fighting spirit .It is always good to try, because not trying means certain failure while in trying you might fail as well as succeed.posted by Robertho on February 25, 2012 7:07AM

I'm in! We've got a nice slcoetien of farmers markets here, and the grocery store near my house offers local products as well (milk, herbs, etc).posted by Puspita on February 25, 2012 7:07AM

Dear Ones,Easy cluodn't have had a more caring, loving family and home. I'm sure Hershey and Cleo welcomed Easy in doggie heaven. We all share in your loss.God bless.Love,Momposted by Fitrie on February 25, 2012 7:07AM

Oh dear... I would love to do this but I'm not sure how best to talkce it right now. The produce part is pretty easy; in fact the biggest triumph of LIW for me was that I got a CSA share when I thought everyone was already sold out. The farm is 106 miles away but we live in a major city so I'm not going to be pedantic. :-) And I have a container garden that should be producing soon.But how do you find local grains and beans? I do make my own bread about half the time, and I cook 80% of our food from scratch but I have no idea where the dry goods actually come from. Meat, eggs, and milk are even worse because this pair of grad students really can't afford any of the organic/free range varieties. In fact we just went over our budget and decided we have to cut back in groceries. My husband really likes his animal proteins but he also eats tofu and soy milk quite happily, so he agreed to cut our meat eating back to 2 or 3 days a week; even then, if I try to buy local, I'll blow whatever I was supposed to be saving.I don't mean to be whiny and I know this kind of lifestyle change is difficult for everyone... I just want to participate because I love the idea and appreciate the community but I'm not sure what additional steps I can afford to take right now. I suppose we could take the negative tack of NOT eating whatever ISN'T local... I've been meaning to read the Omnivore's Dilemma, and suspect that when I'm done, I won't want to eat meat at all. :-) Sorry about the rant. I'm trying to figure out how to balance earth-friendliness with frugality with keeping someone else's palate happy. Fortunately I have plenty of free time right now, and am welcoming suggestions from those of you who have been sorting out these issues longer than I have.posted by Nabila on February 25, 2012 7:07AM

Excellent! I'm in. We've been "practicing" for the September Eat Local month, and for the weelky One Local Summer--and are itching at the bit. Great timing!posted by Contador on February 25, 2012 7:08AM

I've been rediang a book called The Way We Eat and he has an interesting discussion about eating local and how often times it isn't more environmentally friendly, depending on how the food was raised locally and how the imported food was shipped. I've never read anything saying eating local may not be the best thing to do. I still plan on eating locally as much as possible but if anyone is interesting in hearing another viewpoint, you might want to check it out.posted by Lucia on February 25, 2012 7:09AM

I agree with you but often times when pepole talk about eating local they do make it sound like local is the end all be all. I hear very little discussion about seeing how the local foods were produced. If you are buying local tomatoes were they grown in a fossil fuel heated greenhouse? Questions like that are rarely addressed. And I've never heard anyone but you say anything about what to do if the giant farms are local to you. Food is a very complicated thing and I think some pepole over simplify by saying eat local without getting into the rest of it.I'm not trying to be negative or say this is a bad idea, I do plan to participate, I just think it is something that should be talked about in more detail by more pepole.And to be honest, until I read that book, I'd never given a thought to the idea that something produced locally might have used more fossil fuels than something shipped in. I think it is important to be aware of that.posted by Rafael on February 25, 2012 7:10AM

We'd been tlkiang about this and planning to move that direction. So, I'm in with a small caveat. Our plan is to not replace the packaged and frozen food as we use it up, but we do need to use it up.posted by Rama on February 25, 2012 7:11AM

christy - I'll be going into more dtaiel in future posts before Local Food Month begins about how to choose local over your other options. I didn't want to discuss it too much in the initial post - it was becoming long enough :)But you have a very valid point, one which I'll bring up as it's own discussion item soon. This is something that definitely needs to be aired out before people begin.Thanks again!posted by Snikita on February 25, 2012 7:12AM

Count me in! Sounds like a lot of fun and an outtropnipy to share a few learnings around food preservation so we can continue eating local this winter. Thanks!LBposted by Geraldo on February 25, 2012 7:13AM

Better late than not-at-all ... and eniatg locally is something that I've been trying to do of late, anyway. Very cool.posted by Aiihsan on February 25, 2012 7:14AM

Jen her chkees are just the best things EVER! I love seeing the pics of the 2 girls playing and looking at each other. Its adorable :) And I really cant believe that she is 7 months already .posted by Taxi on February 25, 2012 7:14AM

too, too, too aoldabre. I'm sorry but I laughed when I pictured her *flinging* herself backward or forward in an effort to go somewhere. Girls are such drama queens!I love the way she is holding her hands up in that first picture. Like, YAY! 7 months! A-dorable.posted by Jaya on February 25, 2012 7:15AM

I'm not sure actaully I got it in an email forward so who knows where it started. It's pretty good though (unlike most email forwards, heh)posted by Rafael on February 25, 2012 7:15AM

That's so alroabde.I've been writing e-mails to my daughter. I began on my first day as a SAHD and I hoped to do one every day for the year that I'd be home. I'll be lucky if I can hit 250 now, though. It ebbs and flows.Nothing as elaborate as this letter though. Mine are mundane; this is love and gorgeousness.Backpacking Dads last blog post..posted by Nizar on February 25, 2012 7:15AM

Aw! Happy 16 mhonts, Maggie!I read through those posts you linked to she was so cute when she was born! How big was she? She still looks like herself somehow her face is still Maggie. This is why blogging is so great. She *will* have this to look back on, and even if you didn't write a letter every month (hey, good for you for trying! I'm planning on doing my FIRST at one year :) ) she has all of yours posts!Allisons last blog post..posted by Abderrezak on February 25, 2012 7:16AM

Aww.. so I'm new.. but that video is so pcorieus.. I will steal your ideas because i'm just not that creative So be ready for my son's in 6 months ;DActually I like to steal ideas and tweak them.. So I think I will post one for every month.. then a one at the end of his first year there you go.. So I may be a tiny bit creative Summers last blog post..posted by Allison on February 25, 2012 7:16AM

What a great post, so sweet! I'm happy you are wnitirg to her, they grow and change so fast. I'm sorry I haven't been posting comments lately here, I've been out of touch a little with the busy summer.posted by Sari on February 25, 2012 7:16AM

AMEN!!! Thank you, Kelly, for sakeping Truth and for you and Aaron teaching it to your children. What a great letter that your children can pass down to future generations to show them what their grandparents taught their children. What a blessing!!! Thank you for sharing.posted by Nico on February 25, 2012 7:17AM

One thing I have tried to do in my mgriraae is to always just assume the best. I want to assume that what he is doing is for my benefit because he loves me. It has taken years of mgriraae to get to this point, but he has earned my trust over and over.posted by Belladide on February 25, 2012 7:18AM

That was rlealy great. Marriage can be so tough sometimes. I know I rlealy wish I had someone tell me those things a long time ago. You are such an inspiration. Thanks!Mirandaposted by Abdoo on February 25, 2012 7:18AM

at Generation Cedar, has wettirn the best post on marriage that I've read in a long time. In A Letter to My Children About Marriage, she summarizes most of what the last ten years of my own marriage has taught me are the mostposted by Ladi on February 25, 2012 7:18AM

What sound aidcve! We need more and more men and women of God speaking this because it is a message that is so counter-cultural. Thank you for speaking Truth in love.posted by Cip on February 25, 2012 7:19AM

Mice? Kelly, you asmolt made lol (which I don't normally do at the computer). This was a wonderful letter. I may have to print it out and save it for the day when my 7 year old son decides that maybe girls are ok after all.posted by Gregory on February 25, 2012 7:20AM

This is wofnerdul reminder- for my children and myself. My dear husband is not a Christian yet, but hopefully and prayerfully he will become one through the lessons I teach our children and the lesson I live day to day. Thank you. PS I re posted this on my facebook page.posted by Pufy on February 25, 2012 7:21AM

GREAT msagsee! I'm printing it to share with our teens at church. ~ Careful on the anger with Cheyanne. She obviously needs to meet Love . His name is Jesus. I John 4:8 But it's sad that something in her life has made her this bitter toward the wonderful, God-ordained, plan of marriage.posted by Keween on February 25, 2012 7:21AM

Beautiful, tufrhtul advice ..and it applies even to those who are abusive and beat the kids. When you are in it until Christ comes, you seek the solution to extreme problems differently than those who say, Oh, NOW I have the right to get a divorce and the God of all miracles has room to work.posted by Sumon on February 25, 2012 7:21AM

Great aidvce, Kelly! I totally understand you being irritated with Cheyanne. Yes, she needs love, but there comes a fine line when we are to stand up for our beliefs and not falter especially on our own blogs. It's like someone coming into your own house and being a bad guest. You know? ; )posted by Ataur on February 25, 2012 7:21AM

This is buetaiful. I, unfortunately, have been through two failed marriages. One due to years of infidelity after which he finally left. The second due to abuse of one of my children in which I had no choice if I wanted to keep my children. I struggled for a long time as to what I could or should have done differently. It all boils down to truly trusting in God and unfortunately, there were several years of my life when I did not trust God completely and I took things into my own hands. It is heartbreaking to see the struggles that my children have to deal with now because of choices that either I or their fathers made. My greatest desire is that my children will grow up and truly place their trust in God to find the right mate and not rush into a relationship that may not be right simply because they feel pressure from society.posted by dpk on February 25, 2012 7:22AM

What is your avcdie for young people who don't feel called to marriage, or prepared to honor its covenants? I agree that don't get married is fine avcdie certainly many unmarried people throughout Christian history have led exemplary lives but it seems like a difficult step to take when the faith of your fathers honors family and children so highly. (And the popular culture is just obsessed with hustling young women into white dresses whether they're spiritually ready or not!)posted by Beslam on February 25, 2012 7:22AM

I think you parbobly are, Monica (though Kelly's wiser in experience here, so she may disagree). Where I'd draw the line, though, is sharing any intimate experience at all with your husband. It's so darn easy to breach this: we see endless TV shows and even one darned irresponsible Christian book (on my part) where women are either complaining about sexual frusterations with their husbands to their friends or sharing nice experiences. It doesn't MATTER whether the experience was nice or not; it's private, and if my hubby was sharing our beautiful last night with his friends I'd be beyond furious. Plus, women talk; it's not for nattering lips to hear about Sherry's hot renewal time with Jerry. The only exception, I think, would be if the husband's doing something harmful and the wife isn't sure how to respond.posted by Joe on February 25, 2012 7:22AM

Jennifer We have to be cruafel, though, in saying to others that certain things, especially marriage, are only about holiness; that sounds offhand like the horrific life of religion without faith: cold, empty, sterile, going through the motions with no heart life. I'm sure that's exactly what people think about me and my marriage when my husband gives me a less than discreet holy slap on the butt! XDDon't forget that there is a contex for everything in life, even on blogs!posted by Alex on February 25, 2012 7:23AM

A Letter to my Children about Marriage @ Generation Cedar was a ftaanstic post. Some great stuff including some incredible reminders to us who are already married.posted by Geraldine on February 25, 2012 7:23AM

THE KEY: Lower your eantcextiops. Nothing makes us more unhappy than others not living up to what we want. I love it when my wife makes grilled cheese for dinner Perhaps not much to some, but SHE MADE DINNER! It's a win! Every small act is an act of love when you don't expect it. I find this the key to my happiness!posted by Imha on February 25, 2012 7:23AM

Great ptnois!Not sure if this was mentioned, but be careful not to ask yes/no questions because they're not useful. Ask more how/why questions. Better yet, get them to answer in such a way that you don't need to hear the question: Explain your philosophy on what's your approach toposted by Jamiu on February 25, 2012 7:24AM

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Go to law shocol and try to win him back cause you love him. but then when you go you will find out he is engaged to some ugly girl.. Then you will get invited to a dress up party that really isn't a dress up party.. But you will go as a bunny. You will get picked on.. And then he will say you were never smart and you can't make it through law shocol. Then you will work extra hard. You met some guy and he is really nice by the way. And after you get ahead in your glasses you will get a internship and will get a case. You will be told a secret by the person your defending you promise not to tell anyone. and you don't.. You will win the case though and your he will finally see you were smart but it's too late you will already be in love with the nce guy you met.posted by Annisa on February 25, 2012 8:45AM

First you have to have a chat with yesruolf and determine if you really opened your eyes or if you are just lonely without her companionship, you are used to her. Its a tough question, but before you chase her, make sure your are doing it for the right reasons. Then if you realize you STILL want her back, communicate that to her in a sincere heartfelt manner, then just give her some space to make a decision you can't force it. Good Luck!posted by Luciano on February 25, 2012 8:47AM

How to win back my gnerfrilid?It was my fault that we broke up. We had a fantastic relationship for 1 year. Then the 2nd year i aknowledged that she was all mine and i didnt put so much attention to her as i did before (DUMB!). I was so lazy and didnt take her outside, complained with her over little things. Now yesterday she confessed that she doesnt feel inlove with me anymore and broke up with me. Then i opened my eyes and saw how blind i was. It feels terrible when she-s gone. Its my mission to get her back for good now, cause when she broke up with me, i realized how important person she really was in my life. I wont cry about it, just want to win her back! Share your experience and help me please!First of all: thaks for the replies, they'v been helpful. Earlier I sent her sms that Shes the best thing happened to me, and i was blind to see that before, and that i would give everything to hug her again etc. and she sent me smth like this: Please give me time xMyNamex . thanks for the sms, u need to rest now! Hope thats something positiveposted by Naoaki on February 25, 2012 8:47AM

she wneatd to marry me in September. Finally, after I said I still needed time, since we never took the break we stopped talking. I attempted to rekindle the relationship and planned to ask her to marry me on Valentines Day. I found out she had a new bf and requested not to talk to me.I am crushed to find out she has a new boyfriend. We dated 2. 5 years and then continued to talk another 9 months. She has a new boyfriend for 4 months at most. I am going to make one last effort at this, because even in our last contacts she did end one with a love k. I know there is some feeling and she told me she cried when she read an email where i poured my heart out.Do I show up and tell her she is the love of my life and tell her I want her to be my wife? Do I just ask to talk over lunch? Do I wait and pray her relationship doesn't work and then make a move? Any advice is appreciated.posted by Carla on February 25, 2012 8:48AM

here and take it slow. Give her time to trust in you and your rnthlioesaip again. It'll be worth it. The only way for you two to work it out is by spending time together.posted by Pola on February 25, 2012 8:49AM

When tnriyg to get your ex-girlfriend back, how should I talk to her when I go meet her?I want to ask my first girlfriend which is now my ex for another chance, but I feel like I don't know how to talk to her in a way she will understand..posted by Anna on February 25, 2012 8:50AM

You have to utsrednand that you can't just magically get her back. You have to let her new relationship play out, and if it doesn't work out, then you have a chance with her again.posted by Hakan on February 25, 2012 8:50AM

HeyWinning back your ex gfrriliend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don't do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.Here are 3 steps that helped me to get my ex gfrriliend back:Don't Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back TogetherYou should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!You're only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex gfrriliend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.So don't ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can't even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way. You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex gfrriliend that your happiness isn't dependent on being with her.Being Jealous Is Not The Way To GoYou must understand that SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It's ok if it bothers you, but don't let it show and don't call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don't have any right to tell her what to do.If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.Be Flexible Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Rather be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn't take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex gfrriliend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.These tips were helpful for me to get my ex gfrriliend back.all the bestposted by Riny on February 25, 2012 8:52AM

good ways to get your ex gnirfrleid back, after the no contact phase?What are some effective ways or strategies of getting your ex gnirfrleid to reconsider the relationship she chose to end when she broke it off?I know the no contact phase is important, but a good strategy of getting her back after that say 4 weeks of no contact since the breakup?posted by Gema on February 25, 2012 8:52AM

How do you get your ex grinfrield back?I broke up with my ex 8 months ago. I am just curious if there are some ways or things or anything that I can do to get her back. Maybe not right away but maybe some time down the road. I still love her and she is seeing someone else. I will take any and all suggestions. HELP!posted by Joy on February 25, 2012 8:52AM

Just tell her how you feel, bud.What have you got to lose at this point?If you say that her bfryoiend doesn't treat her well, then there's a really good chance she's reminiscing of her relationship with you.The way her bfryoiend is treating her makes her want to be with you more than she wants to be with him. At least, that's how I would feel, if my girlfriend treated me worse than my ex girlfriend :/Just go for it bro. Tell her straight up how you feel.Nothing you can lose at this point.posted by Hyejin on February 25, 2012 8:53AM

if there was a true 100% set way of gtteing ur ex back .hahaha. but the truth is there are steps that u can take that give u the best chances of gtteing her back. and if u go to youtube and do some searching under gtteing ex back or something like that there is a guy on there who goes thru all the steps that are mentioned in that website u sent me. no need to pay anything. and the truth is no matter what u do, its still going to come down to fate.posted by Doudou on February 25, 2012 8:53AM

How do you get your ex- gilnfrierd back, when she has a boyfriend?I still like my ex gilnfrierd a lot and i wanna get back together with her. She has a boyfriend but he doesn't treat her well. I have a feeling she has thought about being with me again. I just dont know how to tell her how i feel.posted by Duong on February 25, 2012 8:54AM

Need some mviooatitn. How did you get your ex-girlfriend back even when in the most hopeless situation?I need some positivity, if you guys can do it so can I but right now I don't feel so positive. So please helpposted by Luzi on February 25, 2012 8:54AM

If she loves u she sdlhoun't be telling u to move on. The same thing happened wit my friend, Jake, at my skool. Him and his gf of 4 months broke up bcuz he wanted to date another girl. Then they l8tr got back 2gether but she broke up wit him AGIAN! but im gonna tell u wat i told them. if u love someone that much then they would admitt it and not hide it! So talk to her and let her kno u still care and maybe she'll end up tellin u that she loves u to! But dont push it. U jus got to give it time!!!!!!! Hope that helps!posted by Agus on February 25, 2012 8:55AM

Lonelygirl riuend your relationshipIt started out with with just a few videos, then you subsribed to them and become a regular viewer. After a while you started sending in video replies to all of her video blogs, trying to help her with her issues. Then before you knew it you were losing sleep over this girl. She is so lonely, you didn't want your girlfriend to know (because you're girlfriend is really hot) So you would stay up until the wee hours of the morning watching lonelygirl15Then, your worst nightmare. Your girlfriend catches you online in those wee hours and asks you why the hell are you awake now? This is how the conversation would goGirlfriend: You have to be at work in 4 hours what are you doing?You: noooooothingGirlfriend: Is there another girl?You: Not reallyGirlfriend: Are you cheating on me?You: NoooooooGirlfriend: Who is she?You: NOBODYGirlfriend leaves. Now you are just as lonely as lonelygirl15. You drown in your sorrows and you can't even watch Bree anymore because it reminds you of the pain she caused. Then you start video blogging, Lonelyguy786. You live alone, spending every night on youtube.You are right Shawn, that is a funny story.posted by Sumon on February 25, 2012 8:55AM

Mmm Exactly. *reaches back, cups her neck and holds her close for a moenmt* you re so sexy.posted by Raymond on February 25, 2012 8:56AM

RT When a girl tkihns of her future with her boyfriend, it's normal. But when the boy tkihns of his future with his girlfriend, he's serious.posted by Jamela on February 25, 2012 8:56AM

Yes I hwelod with laughter, particularly no. 12. I am in need of tips before I was relying on Seinfeld's George Costanzas's tip always look annoyed. I am far too open about the gargantuan swathes of time I need to pass from paycheck to paycheck much good advice thanksposted by Lee on February 25, 2012 8:58AM

How do i get him back?I miss my ex so bad, and every guy i've been with i just can't be happy baseuce i miss my ex so bad. I have no idea what to do to get him back, i screwed up bad. And he knows im sorry. I was the happiest girl when i had him, now im just not happy. He was my first love, my first kiss, my first everything. It's been a while since we broke up. And i've had boyfriends and he's had girlfriends. How do i know if he wants me back? How can i get him back? /: Help please ):posted by Princess on February 25, 2012 9:01AM

Ahhh, that's so sweet!! This is such a great idea to pay tutrbie monthly to P! My poor 3rd child's baby journal are pretty much blank. Your writing is so eloquently descriptive that I actually feel like I can reach out and pinch P's chubby cheeks! ;-)posted by Juanito on February 25, 2012 9:01AM

Don't be mean or nice, pterend like you don't know her. If you act all nice she will know you still want her. If you act mean she'll think she doesnt have a chance.posted by Alex on February 25, 2012 9:03AM

How do i get an ex back to being a best feirnd?Me and my ex where best feirnds for over a year and we started dating, after about 4 months we broke up as it was ruining the feirndship and we wanted things to go back to normal between the two of us. Im still madly in love with him but im trying to make the feirndship between us work, but it doesnt seem to be, what do i do to get my best feirnd back and how do i get over him without ruining the feirndship?posted by Adrian on February 25, 2012 9:03AM

Guys and Girls, does this stuff work for gentitg your ex back?It's just that I want other opinions, because they market this stuff to seem like its a sure fire way to get her back. Smoke and mirrors or do you have experiences that can help better than their advice does. Looking for honest answers please. (Do a Google search on How Do I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back? Number one relationship killer) and let me know what you think.posted by Regiane on February 25, 2012 9:03AM

How to win hin back?., well imiss my ex and innwaa get back with him., guys what would you sayy abt. this??.well., imiss my ex. Idk why we broke up ikno he loves me ithink we broke up because iwas being a bit crazy., but iwas pms., ididnt mean to be harsh to himm., anyways wat do I do., should I call himm.?? Or wait .posted by Tomek on February 25, 2012 9:04AM

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How to get my ex back if she dtniag another guy, while still keeping my stuff?My ex telling me she not dtniag. She say that they are just friend, but I know they are dtniag, so how do I get her back ? She still have my stuff I still have her. She don't want to come pick it up or let me pick up my stuff. What is she thinking? Do I have a chance of getting her back?posted by Kashish on February 25, 2012 9:05AM

How do i get him BACK? /:?I miss my ex so bad, and every guy i've been with i just can't be happy buacese i miss my ex so bad. I have no idea what to do to get him back, i screwed up bad. And he knows im sorry. I was the happiest girl when i had him, now im just not happy. He was my first love, my first kiss, my first everything. It's been a while since we broke up. And i've had boyfriends and he's had girlfriends. How do i know if he wants me back? How can i get him back? /: Help please ):posted by Isabela on February 25, 2012 9:06AM

Well James I'm sorry to hear that. Break ups are never easy, eielcsalpy when they're out of the blue like that. There are a couple of things that I've learned you can do to get your ex back if that's really what you want. First of all you should let your ex calm down. Instead of desperately trying to soothe her temper, let time do the work for you. Don't contact your ex girlfriend for a couple of weeks. This will give her room to calm down and think logically instead of only emotionally. You and your ex will be able to reflect back to the events that led to the breakup and maybe even come up with solutions. Don't let your ex girlfriend see you depressed and grubby looking, as this will show her a weak side which is unattractive. As you allow your ex to cool down, do whatever it takes to look good and feel good about yourself. i.e. get a hair cut/keep yourself groomed, go for a run, or buy yourself a new outfit. Show her you're still that confident hottie she fell for in the first place. This will not go unnoticed by your ex who might just start regretting his/her decision of breaking up with you.To further calm down frayed nerves, write a SMS, email or a good old letter to your ex. This will allow you to express your feelings without any angry interruptions and will also allow your cooled-down ex to read your thoughts in a more controlled manner. Writing will help you bare your soul and your ex will get to know your true feelings without any emotional outbursts. Apologize if you feel that you have wronged your ex in any way.These tips are sure to get your ex back into talking mode and once you two get talking, then it is just a matter of time before you both decide to get back into your lost relationship.I really hope this helps.posted by Sophie on February 25, 2012 9:06AM

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I see a clupoe things wrong in this situation. The first being that it was a pretty serious relationship and yet you felt the need to cheat and lie to her for five months. If you have been going out for about a year and have cheated on her for 5 months you have been cheating on her for almost HALF of the time that you have been going out with her. The fact that she doesn't ever want to talk to you again should not shock you at all. The fact that you cheated on her three times and only are sorry about it when she found out speaks volumes about your character.Perhaps you should re-evaluate your morals. You're not going to get her back but you might be able to prevent the same mistake from happening again in the future.posted by Miranda on February 25, 2012 9:07AM

How to get my ex back?I still have fnegiels for my ex, and I want to try to get him back. I broke up with him a couple weeks ago because he was acting like a jerk, but i miss him. How do i get him back? Thanks.posted by Anil on February 25, 2012 9:09AM

How do I get my ex back?I rlealy miss my ex. We both lost our virginity to eachother and were on good terms now and stuff but I rlealy miss her and I just want to get her back. How do I do thisposted by Danyal on February 25, 2012 9:09AM

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How do I go about wnniig my ex back?I love her and I want to be with her. We broke up for unknown reasons and I really want her. I need advice on how to get her back in my life.posted by Michel on February 25, 2012 9:11AM

Hi, i read ur atlicre, i really like it, and felt that u r a sencible person, while reading i felt something about u. i wish i could some day have date with u. i want to see how u do what ever u do.byejitendraposted by Chiko on February 25, 2012 9:11AM

How can you break up for uonwknn reasons ?If she broke up with you and wouldn't give a reason, then that's where you have to start.Find out what the reason was, and what could have been done to prevent it.Are there things about you that need to be changed? Find out.Good luckposted by Zeynep on February 25, 2012 9:11AM

How would you get your ex back?What suolhd I do? My ex girlfriend is with another guy, but I still like her and have feelings for her. She invited me to hangout the other day, I assume just as friends, but I want her back. I don't know if she wants me back tho. What suolhd I do? It's not as easy because she is in another relationship.posted by Tatiana on February 25, 2012 9:12AM

How can I get my ex back if she is with ahtoner female?Well I fell in love with a female who is considered a lesbian, we dated for about 7 months and I really want her back but she is with her ex, at frist we would still chill and do whatever but now she is trying to create distance, but I can tell there is still deep feelings between us; is this a lost cause?posted by UmCx on February 25, 2012 9:12AM

or look like they are going out, they just frlited with each other and we never ended or talked about our relationship. We never talked to each other and he ignored me most of the time, but I want him back!!! What can I do??posted by Reena on February 25, 2012 9:14AM

How do I get my ex back when I left him ?I left my ex byinroefd a while back and miss him a great deal. I do really regret my decision. We are still friends and talk allot. But there isn't that spark like the first time, please please please help me !!posted by Amin on February 25, 2012 9:16AM

How to make my ex biefroynd be my friend? or How to get over him all together?Ok so I use to have a bf we went through so much towards the end he started to like someone else so I left and met someone new. Jesse was his name I met him only a little time trying to get back at my ex I kissed him infront of him and then he wantd me back so I took him back it went on and on until I started to love Jesse so it began a love triangle so i liked the attention and i kept going with it for 4 or 5 months. My ex got tired of it and he got angry because I spent so much more time with Jesse so he left. During that time I came clean that I had actually cheated on him two times before he had ended it with me to get back at him for the girl he liked. After that he didnt want anything to do with me I wanted his friendship thought I dont love him anymore but im doing everything I can to have his friendship he was my best friend and i dont want him to go .even if i try I end up thinking about him texting him and looking of photos of him I need to know how to get over him or how to get him to be my friend. I really do love Jesse and I want to make it work but I cant keep going for his help in this situation anymore.posted by Sagar on February 25, 2012 9:16AM

Any moevis about the guy/girl desperately trying to get their ex back?Hey guys, pls I need your suggestion. I'll be doing an online campaign to promote products about how to get your ex back. I'm doing my research to understand the subject. And I'm looking for couple of moevis that shows two lover who are completely in love with each other, then they break up, then the guy/girl(who got dumped) being miserable and broken hearted and now he/she is desperately trying to get their ex back like maybe texting their ex or getting drunk and then call them or doing anything crazy' just to get them back etc. Any moevis like this you could suggest? Thanks in advance.posted by Liliana on February 25, 2012 9:16AM

How do i get my ex back?Me and my ex aeegrd to split up about 5 months ago and i was fine at first. We both started dating other people, but now i just really miss him and want him back. But he is still seeing someone and i think they may be getting serious and i dnt think hes interested in me anymore. I can't stop thinking about him, its really getting me down.posted by Mert on February 25, 2012 9:18AM

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the secert to longevity and happiness is to never work at something you don't enjoy doing every day. I hope you continue enjoying doing your job.posted by Yoshihiko on February 25, 2012 9:20AM

Oh man, I rbmemeer being in this place after my mother died, and again after my father's death. It's a crap place to be.The only advice I can give is to let yourself feel what you feel, and call on that strength your father saw in you. Love your birthmark.And you know what? He was right. You'll be okay. It may take a while, but you will be okay.posted by Auth on February 25, 2012 9:20AM

I know we've all been giutly of this from one time or another! I am most giutly of putting off the jobs I least like, meaning that they get blown out of proportion in my mind as even worse than they actually are, and, of course, the delivery date on these bad' jobs gets later and later. I'm making a concerted effort to try and do the bad' jobs first the sense of achievement is great when they're done and also your moral is up, so you work better afterwards!posted by Chanon on February 25, 2012 9:22AM

Thank you for this. I love your prtioarts, and how you write about relationships, in general. And about doing things differently if you could live your life over yes. I've always wondered how it seemed so easy for some people to say they wouldn't change a thing. There's so much I would like to say or do, or un-say or un-do. This is beautiful.posted by Mohd on February 25, 2012 9:22AM

this was so bfaetiuul. i nearly started crying as I was reading it. It made me want to run and give my dad a hug. I love these portraits of your family and friends. They bfaetiuully display the truth of relationships.posted by Kelly on February 25, 2012 9:22AM

Thanks, loelvy people. I've been ruminating on this one for a long time. (An entire book could be written about this particular friend.) The photos at the top and bottom are two of my favorites one from so long ago and one a few months ago.posted by Akio on February 25, 2012 9:22AM

@ Annaly: Yes thats so true, these ngietave thoughts can be a killer.@ A.Zuck: Well you are right, the quote probably doesn't fit in, was just trying something new, a positive quote to start the post.posted by Nancy on February 25, 2012 9:23AM

when we are not sietsfaid with our current position we naturally want to move to new things. That haapens to a lot of people now that I think about it.Thanks!God bless,William VeasleyWilliam Tha Great recently posted..posted by Familia on February 25, 2012 9:23AM

I would bring the cmleopte works of Mary Oliver, or maybe Stanley Kunitz. No wait, I would bring Billy Collins, or maybe Sharon Olds. Or an anthology of poetry all the best poetry in the world. A big book, but required if I can only bring one thing.Barbposted by Satyabrata on February 25, 2012 9:24AM

Your post is a timely contribution to the dbaeteposted by Lissa on February 25, 2012 9:24AM

You have sctruk so many issues face on. I hope this is spread far and wide because there is a lot of truth in your dissection of what we call love and how sometimes we over analyze our relationships based on mainstream media and their top 10 lists of things that supposedly show signs of love. Thank you for writing this as I have learned a lot from it and realize that I maybe need to look inwards for reasons some of my relationships have failed or better yet, never had a chance to succeed. Cheers!posted by Faik on February 25, 2012 9:25AM

assalamualaikum kak aliya.i can feel the agsiunh and wondering what has happen to that sister. i wish she read this post and make a better consideration by getting in touch with you and others that have try to help her. if not for what she intended before at least for forgiveness.posted by Dika on February 25, 2012 9:27AM

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Waalaikumussalam kkhcaik,I believe that everything that happens has its hikmah.She's made her choice and I wish her well. Just hope she returns to the right path before it's too late. Coz the longer you stay away the more difficult it is to return.posted by Savage on February 25, 2012 9:28AM

Banyak pihak lain juga trilebat ya? Dia minta tolong siapa ya? Nampaknya dia tak matang lagi. Dia masih muda, bukan? Takpe... Doakan dia yang terbaik dan semoga Allah melindunginya selalu. Mungkin dia tak berani kerana tak tau nak jangka apa pada masa depan (kalau dia masih belajar la).Mungkin dia takut Cikgu marah dia kot sebab dia pilih jalan itu, tu yang dia tak contact Cikgu. InsyaAllah mungkin dia akan berani contact dengan Cikgu setelah mengumpul balik semangat dia? Tunggu dan lihat saja la. Atau mungkin dia pun tunggu Cikgu contact dia dulu? Masing-masing tunggu nak contact kot.Teruskan bersangka baik... Allah Maha Mengetahui isi hatinya dan niatnya serta Cikgu.Moga-moga semua orang mengambil iktibar dari perkara ini. InsyaAllah ada hikmahnya. Amiin...posted by Charles on February 25, 2012 9:29AM

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Wallahu'alam. Memang benar semua blakreu dengan izin Allah swt.Saya hanya mampu berdoa agar peristiwa yang telah blakreu tidak akan menyulitkan mualaf lain mendapatkan bantuan pada masa akan datang. Orang akan lebih berat hati kerana takut pisang berbuah dua kali.posted by Shadare on February 25, 2012 9:29AM

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